Oh, I'm gonna go to the special hell.

Mal ,'Our Mrs. Reynolds'


Natter 72: We Were Unprepared for This  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


-t - Sep 24, 2013 2:51:31 pm PDT #6520 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Spoiler font to be nice.

Can we do that a little more, please? I'm staying out of Boxed Set to avoid spoilage and y'all have been a little too specific in blackfont re: Sleepy Hollow for my taste.

Mmm, Bayou Bagelry. They had several locations, the one on St. Charles in the LGD was walking distance of several places I lived. I was very sad when they decided not to reopen.

There's no place to get a bagel that good in Solano County, sad to say.


sarameg - Sep 24, 2013 2:56:43 pm PDT #6521 of 30000

Cash, I hope the news only gets better.

I had a hairbrained idea for a project at work and am really hoping it gets termed brilliant and doable because otherwise this insanity is going to continue.

Also, procrastination validation! I've been avoiding calling the gutter people to follow up on the email I sent with my concerns. Well, tonight I came home to an email from the owner saying he'll meet with me after he returns from vacation. Excellent!

Now, to get around to yelling at my car insurance. For all that I have no problem putting my foot down at work and escalating, I don't really enjoy having to track people down to fix their mistakes. I get paid to do that at work; I don't like it when I am the one paying!

Bleh, I want everything to calm the fuck down.

Comparing the construction on my parents' 22 year old house to my 82 year old...well, in 60 years, the bones on theirs won't hold up as well as this one, even with much better upkeep. OTOH, their right angles are indeed all 90°, their water won't be rusty (but when a leak springs in the plumbing in the pad, the disruption will be epic) and I'm pretty sure the actual safety in code changes between 1931 and 2013 were vastly more dramatic than will be for 1991 to 2073...


§ ita § - Sep 24, 2013 3:00:51 pm PDT #6522 of 30000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

My mother was international enough that I thought myself urbane. But I discovered Polish food in university and thought I was being pranked, and Thai food and thought I'd been being tortured by living without it. But she was good--outside of wherever we were living and always J'can, she was diligent about her Italian, Chinese, Greek, French, Spanish, American, Mexican, and a touch of Japanese. And then there's be theme weeks like West African (no rice, what???) and the like. She cooks what I call "food" and the rest is "ethnic". But I think she would cook most anything if there's the right level of challenge (a little, not a lot--new food is fine, time is okay, hard work is for holidays. So I'm sure I missed shit because I was 12 and not taking notes other than "okay, so ratatouille is lasagne with different food, and baklava tastes better with cheese and spinach" (because that's how I filed stuff at 12).

She never baked bread, though, which I thought was weird. When I started she said she'd never been able to get it right, and I was startled "It's an experiment with reactants! How can you do your job and not grow a bit of yeast in the kitchen???"


Amy - Sep 24, 2013 3:05:55 pm PDT #6523 of 30000
Because books.

I'm sorry, -t! I wasn't thinking.


sarameg - Sep 24, 2013 3:09:00 pm PDT #6524 of 30000

Even chinese was exotic where I grew up! We didn't have much in the way of chinese takeout. Every variety of NMican cuisine, a couple italian places...that was it, outside of standard american and some health-hippy stuff. Now, they have thai and mongolian and plenty of cheap chinese takeout. There was at least a couple indian places, but not sure how they've fared. One was really good, too.

I'm not so confrontation avoidant that I can't yell at the kid knocking trash cans into the alley as he danced home. 'Seriously?! Go put them back' 'Yes ma'am, sorry ma'am.' slinks back and rights them. 'Thank you!'


Jesse - Sep 24, 2013 3:17:25 pm PDT #6525 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I was just thinking that my phone has been ringing off the hook, and I wonder how long people will keep saying "ringing off the hook," once there are no hooks!


Typo Boy - Sep 24, 2013 3:19:06 pm PDT #6526 of 30000
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.

Heh. Your mother and I have similarities in how we cook. One of the reasons I rate myself a "good" rather than "excellent" is that I am not a good baker. (The other reason is, other the special occasions, I won't put more than a certain amount of work into cooking, and will take all sorts of shortcuts to save labor, even when not taking the shortcut would make a better meal. Most of what I do cook gets favorable comments, but I get away with it mainly because I'm being graded on a curve by people who don't really know cooking basics.


Typo Boy - Sep 24, 2013 3:19:48 pm PDT #6527 of 30000
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.

Oh and a separate post - Fuck Cancer. Sadly that is always in order.


§ ita § - Sep 24, 2013 3:31:12 pm PDT #6528 of 30000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

My mother can and will kick the ass out of cakes and pies (short crust pastry only), but considers bread and other pastries too fiddly to do from scratch, whereas I prefer that fiddle to decanting a cake from a complex mold (god, our birthday cakes were...we were the cool kids in our own heads, even if she had also sewn our dresses. No, BECAUSE).

Even chinese was exotic where I grew up!

My mother's food was exotic where we grew up. Just not in her kitchen. I can't remember going to a "restaurant" other than maybe a Chinese, or a KFC or a very late Pizza Hut before we left--places that served Jamaican food were just, you know, food. I don't think I knew anyone eating fufu but us, but my mother wanted to give stuff a go.


Kat - Sep 24, 2013 3:32:15 pm PDT #6529 of 30000
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

I love baking, but in each new house, I have to relearn the stove which sucks. There are plenty of things I make once just to see if I can (all dim sum falls in this category, as does macaroons and many tortes). Then there are things I make repeatedly that are also fussy.