River: You gave up everything you had. Simon: [Chinese] Everything I have is right here.

'Safe'


Natter 72: We Were Unprepared for This  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Theodosia - Sep 01, 2013 10:40:04 am PDT #4070 of 30000
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

That must have been one hell of a big dog. Jamaica isn't a small island.


Jesse - Sep 01, 2013 10:59:19 am PDT #4071 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Good news -- my father is way better today! Phew. Longer term still tbd, but he should be home tomorrow.


Dana - Sep 01, 2013 11:00:54 am PDT #4072 of 30000
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

Good news, Jesse.


aurelia - Sep 01, 2013 11:21:03 am PDT #4073 of 30000
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

That must have been one hell of a big dog. Jamaica isn't a small island.

I await the Godzilla-Beethoven crossover flick.


le nubian - Sep 01, 2013 11:27:37 am PDT #4074 of 30000
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

OMG, you have me in a fit of giggles.


Typo Boy - Sep 01, 2013 11:30:38 am PDT #4075 of 30000
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.

I wonder if this is an actual trope among racists? I know when I installed a network in Gabon, a bunch of white ex-pats told me "Black people are all afraid of dogs." My standard response was to ask if all whites in Gabon owned white pointed hoods, but in retrospect, since very few were Americans, I'm not sure they got the reference. Is the KKK well known outside the USA?


§ ita § - Sep 01, 2013 11:31:36 am PDT #4076 of 30000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

he should be home tomorrow.

Okay, yes! That is wicked excellent (is that sufficiently incorrectly used?).

ita, that sounds like a variation on "Black people hate dogs" stereotype

I'm trying to explain to them that a study on 240 Bostonian (psychology student) "subjects" doesn't extrapolate to mean that humans (her term or the study's) value dogs over the lives of human adults and equivalently to the lives of human young. I'm also trying to explain that if there's any fault here, it's not Jamaica's, or any large unruly dog's, but rather that of whoever thought the study could apply worldwide without caveats.

I'm also trying to remove value judgements from people's language that get the disparity, that it's not a less "developed" way to think, but rather a different way to file *some* animals (I don't know if she's rescuing geckos from burning buildings, I just suspect not). While not losing sight of the knowledge that some cultural privilege makes it easier to value a pet over an adult.

Thanks to this convo, though, I have learnt the term WEIRD, and my life might be eternally (or until the end of it, whichever) enriched for that addition.

She's entrenching herself more deeply in her bias while pretending she's accommodating anything I've said in a really remarkable way. I've lost reason, but not enough to even ask how many of the students were white. Even though I'm curious. For reasons.

That must have been one hell of a big dog. Jamaica isn't a small island.

It's the Usain Bolt of dogs. Oversized and very very fast.

Nurse was xenophobic as all ass today. She asked about the "black b...gentleman" that committed suicide recently, and tried to explain to me how sex change operations drove people to suicide (unrelated, I sincerely hope). And by xenophobic I mean hateful. I think my sister rattled something loose in her, but left before she could tidy up after herself.

I exacted my personal revenge by talking about pathological liars and how to spot them. I don't like to think of it as passive aggressiveness--more passive viciousness.

We do indeed hope to hear from you again.

So far, not dead. But avoiding the machines. The nasty, mean, machines. Well, those machines. I have two well-behaved machines in my lap.

I need furniture. I need a nice stool for the dining table, maybe something Ghanaian or thusly inspired. But chair seat height. I need an outdoor table for the balcony, now that I'm an addict and want to eke more use out of it before SoCal summer ends. In a couple months. And an Adirondack ottoman (Am I really supposed to capitalise the furniture? Both words?).


le nubian - Sep 01, 2013 11:39:00 am PDT #4077 of 30000
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

ita,

thanks for the WEIRD article. I am thinking about using it in my classes this term!


-t - Sep 01, 2013 12:14:38 pm PDT #4078 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I don't think you capitalize ottoman when you're talking about furniture. I'm not getting the red squiggle for it.

Oh, that nurse is a real prize. Sigh.

I might be giving up on today. I have zero energy and no idea why that should be. Also, I seem to be particularly clumsy, dropping more things than usual, so I think trying to clean the gutters will definitely have to wait. Oh well, having extra time to rest may pay off in future productivity...


§ ita § - Sep 01, 2013 12:41:46 pm PDT #4079 of 30000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

thanks for the WEIRD article. I am thinking about using it in my classes this term!

I hadn't realised that studies skewed towards students of the specialties! I thought they at least got more random folk than that, but I realise I'm thinking of all the "do you qualify?" posters I see for medical studies, which you really can't keep staffing out of your classes, because how many conditions and diseases can they really have?

I've also sent it to my sister, in case she can use it in her classes.

I don't think you capitalize ottoman when you're talking about furniture. I'm not getting the red squiggle for it.

I got the squiggle, but that might be because I'm using the UK dictionary. But I don't even know how to spell pouffe. Oh, hey. Maybe that's how. Since no squiggle.

Oh, that nurse is a real prize. Sigh.

I don't know what was up her ass today, but she was hateful. She is one of those people that says "those people" to refer to a race, nationality, or culture, and dives down that slippery slope with abandon, but today she crept me out. Her anti-doctor rhetoric was also sufficiently impassioned and contemptuous that I was glad she saved it until after administering the (doctor-prescribed, natch) medication.