Come on. You drop by for a cup of coffee, and the world's not ending? Please.

Connor ,'Not Fade Away'


Natter 72: We Were Unprepared for This  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Laura - Jun 15, 2014 6:47:10 am PDT #29925 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Happy Father's Day to all the buffista fathers and father figures!

Indeed!

I do see a lot more involved dads now than when I was a child. My mom was a stay at home mom and dad worked. He was remote and eccentric. He didn't get how to interact with children and no one questioned or considered changing that. We communicated when I was an adult and had many good conversations, but as a child he was not really involved. He was a good man, but his definition of being a father is worlds away from my husband's. We were Mary's children. I don't have any problem with it, but I am convinced he had children for my mom because he clearly adored her. And it was what was done.

So hooray for the super dads! It is an incredibly difficult job. I see so many moms doing it by themselves or with rotten dads and I don't know how I could ever manage without the help and support that DH has provided.


Laura - Jun 15, 2014 7:14:12 am PDT #29926 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

RIP Casey Kasem. I hope he was completely oblivious to the family battles surrounding him.


Theodosia - Jun 15, 2014 7:31:05 am PDT #29927 of 30000
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

That would be a mercy, Laura.


-t - Jun 15, 2014 7:51:48 am PDT #29928 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Try number 3 at Day 1 of my triathlon training (I've actually done okay the other two times with Day 1, just never yet managed to get through Day 2 for various reasons...), which is to say swimming. 81-year-old father told me I had a pretty good stroke since it took me 23 strokes/length. I am not too sure how much credence to put into that, but it's nice to hear.

Put new batteries in one of my old heart rate monitors beforehand in the hopes that it would work as a stopwatch if nothing else (I'm allowed to rest for 30 seconds at the end of each length right now, but there's only a clock at one end of the pool) but my taking off and putting back on the back seems not to have preserved its water-resistance. Rats.


dcp - Jun 15, 2014 10:24:00 am PDT #29929 of 30000
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

Here is a Slate article on the Kindly Brontosaurus: [link]

I'm intrigued. Has anyone tried this? Did it work? Does it cross the line to annoying passive-aggressive?


Connie Neil - Jun 15, 2014 11:05:25 am PDT #29930 of 30000
brillig

I think I would take great joy in foiling the plans of the Kindly Brontosaurus--especially if she had the smirk of that woman in the illustration.


hippocampus - Jun 15, 2014 11:14:44 am PDT #29931 of 30000
not your mom's socks.

Highly scientific article on what ate great white shark Alpha: [link]


msbelle - Jun 15, 2014 11:49:17 am PDT #29932 of 30000
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Watching Who - finally on S7 and finally done with the Ponds. I realize that may not be a popular opinion.

The movie is to be watched after S7, right?


Typo Boy - Jun 15, 2014 11:49:45 am PDT #29933 of 30000
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.

I think a man might have a harder time executing the KB than a woman because gender assumptions make it harder for a man who won't go away to come off as non-threatening.


Cass - Jun 15, 2014 12:42:06 pm PDT #29934 of 30000
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

That's why it works for men. It is very threatening to have a man standing just off to the side, clearly expecting something and being very focused. It's not a nice technique. At best it is passively aggressive, but it is aggressive.