Bev posted a thing on her Tumblr about the two wolves within us, happiness and anger, and how the one that wins is the one you feed. It sounds trite, but I've been consciously trying to let go of the little things that make me angry -- traffic, bad drivers, broken things -- and it's helping a little.

Sometimes that feels a little ostrich-like, but I'm tired of being mad all the time.

I'm tired of being mad all the time.

Oh, my, yes. Good luck.

The #yesallwomen reactions is so much "OMG, DO YOU REALIZE YOU ARE ACTUALLY MAKING THE POINT OF THE #YESALLWOMEN THING?"

I am increasingly grateful that no one I'm FB friends with gives me any lip about things I might post that they disagree with and/or are assholes about.

Yeah, I feel lucky no one does that to me on FB, either. And no one responded to any of my #YesAllWomen tweets with ugliness, which is probably a function of not many people following me, and most of them being women. Still, it was a relief.

Ack, you guys, I have to stop reading all the #yesallwomen stuff. Not because I can't handle the stories women are telling, but because I can't stand the insidious negation of those stories that immediately follows. It's like being in Invasion of the Body Snatchers and realizing everyone else is a pod. (#notallpods)

So much this.

And no one responded to any of my #YesAllWomen tweets with ugliness, which is probably a function of not many people following me, and most of them being women.

Yeah, Twitter and Tumblr are safe for me, mainly because hardly anyone sees what I say. FB, unfortunately is a minefield, and I don't have the energy to deal with it. I don't even have the energy to read my friends' FB posts anymore, which depresses me.

I am increasingly grateful that no one I'm FB friends with gives me any lip about things I might post that they disagree with and/or are assholes about.

FB, unfortunately is a minefield, and I don't have the energy to deal with it. I don't even have the energy to read my friends' FB posts anymore, which depresses me.

I actually haven't posted anything on FB because I don't think I can even handle anyone pushing back. (Yes, it would be "good" in the sense that I would know who to unfriend and avoid, but I just don't even have the emotional energy to handle someone saying "He wasn't a misogynist; he was just mentally ill!" or "You can say the same thing about the way women treat men!" or "WOMEN HAVE ALL THE POWER." I just can't.)

I can't stand the insidious negation of those stories that immediately follows.

and also

And no one responded to any of my #YesAllWomen tweets with ugliness

Ditto, and I can only assume it's because I got in really early and then stopped participating when I got overwhelmed and spoonless about the whole thing.

FB, unfortunately is a minefield, and I don't have the energy to deal with it.

I don't have a lot of directly combative types on my FB list, and everything is either friends or friends of friends, so I don't get much drive-by bullshit. But there is SO MUCH that I just don't even bother say there because it's just fucking TIRING to deal with "if I say this not even vaguely controversial thing, will so-and-so post some passive-aggressive weird shit half an hour later..." I got out of high school 25 years ago, people.

But there is SO MUCH that I just don't even bother say there because it's just fucking TIRING to deal with "if I say this not even vaguely controversial thing, will so-and-so post some passive-aggressive weird shit half an hour later..."

Yeah. Thus my almost non-existent FB presence.

I will post my 5K run via Nike+ tomorrow, though, because whenever someone likes those posts my iPhone plays cheering crowd noises at me, and that is pretty great.

whenever someone likes those posts my iPhone plays cheering crowd noises at me, and that is pretty great.

That's excellent. Are we friends on FB? I will be sure to like all of those posts!

I will be sure to like all of those posts!

Yeah, for sure!

And for the rest of the day, I'm going to concentrate on work, and taking breaks by looking at pictures of puppies. PUPPIES.