I tell you I have this theory. It goes where, you're the one who's not my sister. Cuz mom adopted you from a shoe box full of baby howler monkeys, and never told you cuz it could hurt your delicate baby feelings.

Dawn ,'Selfless'


Natter 72: We Were Unprepared for This  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


-t - May 20, 2014 4:28:14 am PDT #28118 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Are these preparing to sell the house projects, Laura? I'm glad they are going well, whatever the purpose.

Definitely a coffee and pie for breakfast day for me. Lucky for me I happen to have coffee and pie available.


Laura - May 20, 2014 4:40:00 am PDT #28119 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Yes, -t. The house needed some 'curb appeal' updates.

Mmmm, pie.


shrift - May 20, 2014 5:00:35 am PDT #28120 of 30000
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

It's nice to start the day already under the bus.


sarameg - May 20, 2014 5:02:53 am PDT #28121 of 30000

Right there with you.


le nubian - May 20, 2014 5:16:06 am PDT #28122 of 30000
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

It's nice to start the day already under the bus.

I did not get enough sleep last night and I feel like well trod ass.


Lee - May 20, 2014 5:21:44 am PDT #28123 of 30000
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

I'm pretty sure my boss is mad at me for asking if we could not do the weekly meeting yesterday since we were all really busy. I didn't even add the part about the weekly meeting being a complete waste of time, but she's still annoyed, and she's going to be in my office today which means I have to spend more time I don't have trying to get her unannoyed


le nubian - May 20, 2014 5:24:34 am PDT #28124 of 30000
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

re: trigger warnings for college classes

see this article in Salon: [link]

I don't know WTF to think about all of this. My courses, while not free of controversy, do not often feature explicit assault kind of material. So the kind of trigger warnings I see on tumblr and twitter would not fit. However, on occasion, I have told students to prepare themselves for shocking visuals (like of really bad disease) when I show a research ethics movie.

What I think a lot of people are unprepared for, but I don't address it via "warning" is discussions about racism (for example). Some of that stuff is triggering, really. But since it is part of what they expect to discuss, I feel people know what to expect generally.


§ ita § - May 20, 2014 5:30:40 am PDT #28125 of 30000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I've finally realized some of the part of it I don't get is having lived in the same place for 30+ years.

My parents have owned our house for more than 30 years, and my father intends to decay there. He's planning railings and ramps and all sorts of things that you don't even know about for sure yet, since his vision has gotten quite better since he came to Fl for surgery and my mother insists she'll keep doing yoga and improver her mobility. You never know what accommodation will be. But they do not have a neighbourhood community, although a family that's kinda like Hydra. Will I move back? Could I move back? Could I not move back?

From my cousin's funeral, I realise I might have to move back (at least for a while) for my sister. She will fall apart if my mother dies. The cancer was pretty hard on us all, but I think we're psychically better off for it. Death won't do that.

Hey, meet Feminist Frank. It's not a numerous meme, but it is amusing.

I love shows with dancing scenes where you can tell a) who has zero rhythm, who took the classes as a kid, who picked it up pretty well during pre-eo training, and who's Dule Hill. (I also love people discovering Dule Hill, BTW).

eta: I'd either not take your class or sob in the corner continuously. I try not to avoid my racial/slavery triggers (a la not watching 12 Years Of Slavery Yet, if ever--maybe with a binkie and a best friend who's given up on judging me).


Steph L. - May 20, 2014 5:32:50 am PDT #28126 of 30000
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Hey, meet Feminist Frank. It's not a numerous meme, but it is amusing.

Go, Feminist Frank.


meara - May 20, 2014 5:39:28 am PDT #28127 of 30000

Flea, is the oxy theft an ongoing issue ? I'd be raising all kinda of hell over that, that's a huge problem. Dang.