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Natter 72: We Were Unprepared for This  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Jesse - Mar 16, 2014 6:10:09 am PDT #22472 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I do want to grow stuff to eat, and I actually know the soil is totally full of lead, so I think raised beds are actually the way to go, but I am thinking about containers as a starting point. But I'll need to do something to the rest of the floor. I mean, ground. Outside! What even is that?


Jesse - Mar 16, 2014 6:12:38 am PDT #22473 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

ION, I'm watching more Friday Night Lights, and hey! It's Mike Ross from Suits!


Lee - Mar 16, 2014 6:27:07 am PDT #22474 of 30000
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

More like...stick something in the ground. Does it die or not??

Totally how I garden too.


brenda m - Mar 16, 2014 6:28:06 am PDT #22475 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Counter offer. What to do, what to do???

$4500 above my offer. Do I try to knock that down $1500? Or just go with it? I don't want to upend things.


Jesse - Mar 16, 2014 6:33:47 am PDT #22476 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Sitting here, I feel like I would counter-counter, but in real life, I dunno. Is the $4500 more still doable for you?


brenda m - Mar 16, 2014 6:47:12 am PDT #22477 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Yes, it's fair. I think I will talk to my realtor and go down $1500 or $2000 and hopefully lock it down. I am unreasonably worried about making someone say fuck that and walk away. As a general thing, not here specifically. So I just have to keep reminding myself it's not unexpected. (It's not, right??)

Countering when I got my current job offer was bar none the scariest thing I've ever done, and I had to keep focusing on how pissed I was at myself for not doing that on other occasions.)


Amy - Mar 16, 2014 6:53:56 am PDT #22478 of 30000
Because books.

That sounds reasonable, brenda! Deep breaths!


brenda m - Mar 16, 2014 7:09:49 am PDT #22479 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Hmmm. This is from the selling agent to my agent:

Sorry for the slight delay. I had to remind my seller of updating work yet to be done on the home. Though she did decide to counter in price. I advised her not to go higher than she did. Also seller and I would much rather close at my office or local Lake Geneva title Co. This is reflected in the counter offer.

Just a fyi. I'm not sure if seller will go any lower in price. I also believe she will not do any repair work post inspection report. Especially since installing a new well. Seller will also be leaving monday morning on a 4 day business trip. Her availability to me will be limited. Anyways see what you can do. Thanks much for the offer and good luck on your end.

Must think on this.

It's been on the market for a long time and has dropped in price some, and my offer was $12k below asking. So it's not an unreasonable price by any means, and much less than they initially set out to get. (And the fact is, I really want it. It's not perfect, but in a venn diagram of location, characteristics and price it's pretty uniquely in the sweet spot.)


Zenkitty - Mar 16, 2014 7:10:44 am PDT #22480 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Go, brenda, go! Good fortune!

I'm thinking of doing some kind of container garden on my otherwise-unused patio this year. It may never get beyond the thinking/planning portion, though.


brenda m - Mar 16, 2014 7:24:55 am PDT #22481 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

To put my crazy fully on display, my offer was a nice round number. The counter is also a pleasing number. Counters I would make come out awkwardly. This is genuinely weighing on me.