So, reality check. Casper has played soccer the past 3 seasons with school. Her birthday falls after the cutoff, so she can "play up" (with the kids in her grade), or "play down" with the kids who are the same actual age as she is but the lower grade. Last spring she played down and didn't like it much. In the fall I pushed for her to play up and she enjoyed playing with her classmates. The league fields girls' and boys' teams, but our school is small so we've had co-ed teams (that play against all-boys' teams). Casper has always been one of only 2-3 girls on the team, and she's actually kind of crap at soccer, but she likes to do it and gender has never been a problem.
This spring there are 18 kids signed up for the age group, which is too many for one team and not enough for 2 (and also we lack coaches for a second team). The sports coordinator decided to ask the two girls who signed up if they'd be willing to play with the girls' team at Kilgour, the school Casper went to before the current school. The other girl is willing to do that, but Casper wants to play with her friends, so she has decided not to play soccer at all.
While this is a relief in some ways, from the parent scheduling perspective (and also watching your kid be bad at sports during games perspective), I'm pretty pissed off. Why were only the girls asked to go to another team? Why couldn't boys have been offered the option to play for another school that was short players? I feel like my daughter has been asked to sacrifice and not play with her friends simply because she is a girl. As a result, she is dropping the sport. I'll note that these kids are 10-11, largely pre-pubescent, and in fact Casper is taller than lots of her male classmates. (She's not sporty, but that's at least as much due to genetics as gender.)
Should I say something to the sports coordinator, pointing out his sexism? He has two sons, both under 6.
The hazards of driving in the West--having tumbleweeds bounce off your car during evening rush hour. There's a heck of a wind out there, and I guess all their roots are weak, because the damned things are everywhere. I always thought they only rolled dolefully around deserted old towns, but no, major roads, giant tumbleweeds. One was taller than my hood, and I had to drive straight over the damned thing. And the one that bounced off my driver's side window was startling. Fortunately I saw it coming and realized it wasn't going to stay in its own lane.
Does anyone here live in Arkansas? I have weather questions.
Should I say something to the sports coordinator, pointing out his sexism? He has two sons, both under 6.
Yeah, I think so. If they could do two teams, would they be a boys' and a girls'? If there were an all-girl team, do you think more girls would have signed up?
No, there are 16 boys and 2 girls signed up, so only the girls were asked to play for another school. But really, any 2 kids could go somewhere else and the team would be fine. The school as a whole only has about 75 kids in the age range total, and many of the kids (boys and girls) have continued to play at their former schools (our school is a magnet and lots of kids arrive in 3rd or 4th grade), or play select soccer (like Casper's BFF.)
Internet went out for an hour. Do not like. Verizon's phone tree is useless. No, I'm not going to reboot my computer when the problem is clearly indicated at the router which says NO INTERNET.
Anyway. Glad that's over.
I've thought about doing a rain barrel, except...what am I going to water? My paltry back patch doesn't need supplementation (downspout off the main roof largely gets dumped there anyway,) getting that water to the front is problematic, and I only water there for new plantings. Heck I diverted the runoff from the porch roof to the street and that's meant a drier basement, so... I'm not going to use it to clean stuff. I can't ship it out west.
Ah, tumbleweed season. I remember having to stop on the interstate to let a herd pass. They can do more damage than just to your paint job. We had more than one a small pileup due to-seriously- poor visibility due to tumbleweeds.
They burn like whoa, but you don't do that on a windy day. They'd probably be a good fuel source, compressed, if they didn't stink so much.
I don't know the best way to navigate this, but his only asking the girls really pisses me off.
16 is OK but 18 is too many? That seems a little weird. And yeah, asking only the girls is rude. Shame about Casper quitting. Is she involved in anything else physical (dance/martial arts/wahtever)?
I have weird sunburn spots. They will fade into weird tan spots. Grrr.
On the rain barrel, my parents keep a bucket in the shower that they use to water stuff. They just empty it daily. It adds up when you aren't getting rain.
I think all the teams for the boys were divided by gender after the tiniest level. It could be because of the size of the schools. There are a couple hundred thousand kids in the school district. Most of the schools are huge.
eta: but his only asking the girls really pisses me off.
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The school as a whole only has about 75 kids in the age range total, and many of the kids (boys and girls) have continued to play at their former schools (our school is a magnet and lots of kids arrive in 3rd or 4th grade), or play select soccer (like Casper's BFF.)
Ah -- I just wondered if there would be enough for a girls' team if that had been an option, but it sounds like no. You should definitely say something to the coach.
