You know what the chain of command is? It's the chain I go get and beat you with until you understand who's in ruttin' command here.

Jayne ,'The Train Job'


Natter 72: We Were Unprepared for This  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


-t - Mar 06, 2014 3:24:32 pm PST #21615 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

You are definitely ahead of me, Consuela! The 5K training all takes place before Mission #2 (of season 1, I guess? I haven't needed to get that sorted that out) so I have LOTS of catching up to do (starting in April, after I actually run a 5K!). I am getting teeny hints of story, mostly - it's already terribly interesting.


-t - Mar 06, 2014 3:26:00 pm PST #21616 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Maple syrup or nutella in your coffee sounds like it might be worth trying, meara. Hooray, Mexico!


SuziQ - Mar 06, 2014 3:32:34 pm PST #21617 of 30000
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

I just did something that was very painful. I went through all my shoes and threw away a few, make a huge pile to take to a couple of consignment places, and packed the few remaining comfortable shoes. All my beautiful high, high heels that are cute, but walking is to be kept to a minimum are in the to-go pile. Sigh.


-t - Mar 06, 2014 3:37:46 pm PST #21618 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Good job, Suzi! I know that's hard.


sarameg - Mar 06, 2014 4:13:04 pm PST #21619 of 30000

Survived final day of program mgmt class. Again, not bad. Did get a couple hints as to why I might be chafing: 1. At lunch, the trainer basically told me that I didn't probably didn't need the class, though the formalization of some step probably would help a bit. She asked if I ever got frustrated as a member of a team, and why. Thinking of some recent projects, I gave a few examples and she pointed out that the points of friction were places where the team leads were deviating/failing to follow standard practices in PM=what I though should be the next step/info.

So basically, I'm a good problem solver and when I see bad problem solving that I can't change...yeah.

Not that I'm a super-special genius or anything. I've had very good modeling over the years from our dev/test/ops team, and my years on the helpdesk probably help me have a good nose for sussing out personality and politic issues.

2. I wasn't really being challenged. Makes me bored.

Got an unsolicited compliment on my hair. That was nice.

AND AND AND! I got paired up with one of my favorite snarky scientists from an old project. We're to follow up with each other on our new projects. I picked an onerous task I've been avoiding for a couple years that will make my life easier, but every one else is content with the status qu. Bor-rrring. But his? His is planning a wedding party/reception/throwdown for him and his husband. Who is an archeologist who will be off working in Iraq in a couple months so they have to do all the planning now for this fall. I told him he got a shitty deal from me, but I want to hear ALL ABOUT THIS OMG SO FUN!

I think I win.


meara - Mar 06, 2014 4:19:59 pm PST #21620 of 30000

His is planning a wedding party/reception/throwdown for him and his husband. Who is an archeologist who will be off working in Iraq in a couple months so they have to do all the planning now for this fall. I told him he got a shitty deal from me, but I want to hear ALL ABOUT THIS OMG SO FUN!

He's planning his wedding as part of a project management class? Love it.

So, I don't think I like PV as much as the little town Brenda and I stayed in last year (too big, too ridiculously touristy) but I do love that there's a ton of gay men here wandering around (there's a gay beach and some clubs, so it's become a thing).


Kat - Mar 06, 2014 4:20:12 pm PST #21621 of 30000
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

I love that his new project is a personal project. NEAT.


brenda m - Mar 06, 2014 4:23:01 pm PST #21622 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Thanks all.

I will note that in DC, strip clubs were known for having awesome food, super cheap.

Which felt like one more advantage that already privileged guys could take advantage of.


sarameg - Mar 06, 2014 4:37:14 pm PST #21623 of 30000

We were encouraged to come with one personal, one work and we could chose, with guidance to pick the one that would use the full beginning-to-end approach and was one we might not attempt without prodding/ absofuckinglutely had to happen in the next year. My personal was the banister, but I figured it is far enough along and subject to my weekend plans and no real deadline... I needed the prod for the onerous.

The project of one of the deputy JWST instrument head's for this? Clear out and organize their floor-to-ceiling-stuffed garage (which included stuff left behind by previous owner) so she doesn't murder her ADD-prone husband over it. Or die when a stack of boxes collapsed.

It was a good class in that she had us engaged with each other as well as the content.

And I networked the fuck out of it, putting bugs into people's ears for the archive (INCLUDE US ON YOUR PROJECT PLANNING PSST PSST WE ARE ONE OF THOSE STAKEHOLDERS REALLY. They ALWAYS forget about us and we always have to deal with the fallout.)


Kat - Mar 06, 2014 4:39:31 pm PST #21624 of 30000
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

sara, part of the reason, I think, classes are so hard as adults, is that we are usually so self-determined in what we pursue, that to sit in a class and follow someone else's plan/agenda it's tiring and painful.

I am still doing injections and I have bruises all over now. I hate my body. I really feel like my body is a shitty lemon car that I drive my brain around in.