Zappos is messing with the wrong person.
I thought the stranger's interaction with the daughter was really dehumanizing for the mother. The mother was standing RIGHT THERE. And despite the fact that she was complaining and was a bit confused, she wasn't in la-la land. And the mother clearly understood she was being talked about when the stranger made the comment.
How awful. I mean, I understand that the stranger was trying to say something nice but way, way wrong time and place. And my heart breaks for the mother. Treated like she isn't there, isn't important, isn't human.
Have you guys read this essay about aging by the 93-year-old Roger Angell in the latest New Yorker? [link] He talks about being invisible in it. It's really moving and wise.
When my mom was on her downhill slide I would have given anything to talk with someone in the same situation
Suzi,
so maybe what the stranger could have done to attempt to be helpful is spend some time writing a quick note and handing it to the woman, saying "please read this later if you wish. have a good day?"
Have you guys read this essay about aging by the 93-year-old Roger Angell in the latest New Yorker? [link] He talks about being invisible in it. It's really moving and wise.
That was really lovely. Made me cry a lot but not in a bad way.
I should read that article, but not sure when I'll be up for it.
Grading right now, or at least supposed to be grading.
I called Zappos and they were very responsive to my "I shipped that three weeks ago, dude" approach, so that's squared away.
Man, I know how sugar is going to kill us all (I edited the article, after all), but DAMN if peanut butter cookies aren't the best fucking thing EVER.
At least they have protein?
t /rationalizations R us
Customers! Argh!
I have two big boxes being stupid and I just want to turn off my laptop and go lie down.
I just walked a mile in the sunshine without a jacket because I could.
I've had my apartment windows open most of the day--because I can. It's lovely!