I got a favor of homemade-by-the-bride jam at one wedding, but since I had flown there I couldn't take it with me. (I think megan walker got it, actually.) At another wedding, I got soap made by a friend of the couple.
Inara: You don't have to die alone. Mal: Everybody dies alone.
'Out Of Gas'
Natter 72: We Were Unprepared for This
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
flea - Dec 27, 2013 7:26:12 am PST #15622 of 30000
information libertarian
DebetEsse - Dec 27, 2013 7:50:43 am PST #15623 of 30000
Woe to the fucking wicked.
Consumables are great because then you, as a guest, don't feel bad about throwing things away.
Zenkitty - Dec 27, 2013 8:03:29 am PST #15624 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.
I do like the idea of having goodie/activity bags for any children in attendance, though, in hopes of keeping them occupied.
That's a good idea. I wouldn't even notice if there were no favors or welcome bags at a wedding. I figure, I'm there for them; why would they give me stuff?
beekaytee - Dec 27, 2013 8:41:54 am PST #15625 of 30000
Compassionately intolerant
The best favors I ever created for a wedding were the books from the last big flower project I did.
The couple are both writers and scholars, so the books were either in their areas of expertise, or well-loved for one reason or another.
I covered the ones outside the color scheme in a lovely batik.
An unexpected delight was that tables began negotiating with each other for the books they really wanted. Some took the covered ones just because they were pretty. Some titles sparked bidding wars paid by good deeds!
eta: I should add that the books all came from yard sales, free piles and second hand shops. Much less expensive than a lot of traditional favors.
Kate P. - Dec 27, 2013 9:01:02 am PST #15626 of 30000
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love
We gave out small plastic toys (dinosaurs, mermaids, eagles, polar bears, etc.) at our wedding. We weren't necessarily planning on doing favors, but we found several boxes of cool and cheap little toys at a local toy store and decided our guests would love them, and indeed they did.
msbelle - Dec 27, 2013 9:04:36 am PST #15627 of 30000
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb
Work has been a major pain the last two days. I am buried in paperwork and keep having to put it aside to deal with other things.
sarameg - Dec 27, 2013 9:17:00 am PST #15628 of 30000
Closed! About to start appliances and beds. Lordy.
DCJ, my utmost condolences, I just saw.
lisah - Dec 27, 2013 9:30:39 am PST #15629 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate
We gave out Big Boyz Bail Bonds pens! Practical! (That's what I was dressed as when Bob proposed. )
Kat - Dec 27, 2013 9:33:16 am PST #15630 of 30000
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo
My friend K made delicious jam for her wedding. And when my friends J and G and got married (at Treasure Island on the pirate ship) they gave out eye patches and fake cutlasses.
Liese S. - Dec 27, 2013 10:31:27 am PST #15631 of 30000
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."
The best favor I ever got at a wedding is the only one I still know where it is. It was a super cool, low key outdoor wedding in eastern Tennessee. Favors were frisbees with the name & date of the wedding printed on them. Love. That bride was also so awesome that the (handmade) bridesmaids' gowns were totally usable lovely spring dresses that I wore for a decade afterwards.