Thanks, everyone!

Happy birthday Consuela! May the universe make you many wonderful things to read this season and all next year!

Happy birthday to G, Sheryl!

Msbelle, thinking of you and your family.

Happy Birthday Consuela!

Mega meara'd:

Happy birthday, ‘Suela. It’s been a hard year. Enjoy the day as much as you can.

I love the diversity of human beings because there is no way in Hades I would get up at 5:45 am on my birthday voluntarily unless it involved Idris Elba showing up at my door.

Even still. I’d invite him into bed but hope he had a key ahead of time so I wouldn’t have to get up for the door. Mornings are hard.

In my mind, a bagel coat has a large hole in the middle....

And it has blueberries?

he felt very strongly that at some point when they're ready people can "let go." He'd tracked down a missing relative, listened to various concerns...

I told my Dad that we’d take care of (step)Mom and he could trust us with her. I mean, I told him a lot over the final months but that was the last thing I told him.

My day totally just turned around: I asked the CSR at the bank for an email of someone higher up I could complain to, and by the time she came back, she was waiving the fees! And emailing them to me instead of paper mailing them! Complaining works!!

Sadly, it really does. Complaining but being polite is fucking magic.

Did you know you have a sinus cavity that runs from the soft palate of the roof of your mouth, up the backside of your nose and hooks around behind your eye?

Yes, but only because it sometimes (often) acts up and pain ensues. Sinuses are fucking overrated. They are the head’s appendix until someone explains how they are useful.

I can't figure out how to heat it to drain it. It doesn't hurt NOW, but clearly is messed up. And I'm not really congested.

I can't figure out how to heat it to drain it.

There's a weird thing you can try. The sinuses are bone, right? Which doesn't really move when you press on it (despite how much pressure I put on my cheekbones when my sinuses are killing me).

Except the sinus cavity that starts at your soft palate, *because* it's the soft palate and not regular hard bone, can be moved a little. So. You use your tongue to press on the soft palate, more or less right behind the front teeth. Alternate that with using a thumb or finger to press between your eyebrows, above your nose (there's sort of a small divot you can feel there; that's where to press). You alternate, soft palate and brow bone, back and forth several times, and it can seriously get some of the nastiness to drain.

It's worked for me. I am not lying.

t edit Okay, Lifehacker says put pressure on both together and hold for 20 seconds: [link] Alternating pressure spots worked for me, but try both ways if one doesn't work.

t edit again But Men's Health says to alternate: [link] Dueling sinus draining techniques!

Oh, I believe you. I've been trying since the first sub-2-foot dunk whimper-plant-feet-stand-up-gasp without much luck. I think I'm doing it wrong or something. This one is definitely way interior. Normally, it is my cheekbones/forehead and those are just fine. I've honestly never felt this rat bastard singularly before (I've had whole head sinus issues, but then, whole head hurts, not this narrow path that in way behind my face.)

I've got a hot pack. It feels nice but then, my hair is still damp. Warm of course feels good.

I mean, my teeth don't even hurt! They never not hurt with sinus crap!

Sorry, I am weird with pain and this was a new one. It goes one of two ways: stoically bully through or collapse in a whining heap as I dissect it all (because maybe if I know how it works, I can fix it? Or at least fantasize about how I could?)

There's a yoga pose that helps. I can't explain it without sounding dumb so I am going to e you and limit my audience.

Tried it. Proof will be in the swim tomorrow, I suspect.