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Natter 72: We Were Unprepared for This  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


aurelia - Aug 05, 2013 6:49:53 am PDT #1372 of 30000
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

he seemed to be having a good time, but after a couple of hours he got really disoriented and started bumping into things... So my sister took him home & he rested and had dinner with them.

Is he eating enough/drinking enough water? This sounds like his body just didn't have enough fuel. Not that depression isn't also part of the equation.

Work vent... If a moving light is not working and you have 3 potential replacement fixtures, why would you choose to use the one labeled "Bad Ballast"? And then change the (very expensive) lamp when it stops working? Just... why?


Strix - Aug 05, 2013 7:04:03 am PDT #1373 of 30000
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Jesse, Suela, I am sorry for both of your situations. I hold you in my thoughts.


Laura - Aug 05, 2013 7:21:27 am PDT #1374 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

I suspect some of this is from no longer having what he saw as a purpose in his life.

It is so very difficult. My mother (and me for that matter) went through this after we were widowed. After months and years of being needed so much, suddenly no one needs you. It is beyond disorienting. It is being left totally without purpose.

There is no cure for grief. The only suggestion I could offer is to make him feel needed. Ask his advice often. Ask for his help with anything.


§ ita § - Aug 05, 2013 7:50:00 am PDT #1375 of 30000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

It was a porn site that I had to block

I know this is a stupid question, but why did you have to block it? Were they spamming you or sending disturbing stuff?

For some reason provocateuse just got a small wave of Person of Interest fans. I'm guessing someone liked the Sarah Shahi reblogs I did.

Suela, that's very sobering. But what Laura says makes sense from what little I know--being needed is important, as long as it's not in ways that make you feel incompetent. Hell, everyone sounds useful. Me, my heart is with you.

I have a lot of paper reading to do this morning, and I'm distracted by the fact that I really should have worn a belt with this outfit. If only to hang my security tag from. I wonder if NBC is still selling Community lanyards...


Tom Scola - Aug 05, 2013 8:03:15 am PDT #1376 of 30000
Mr. Scola’s wardrobe by Botany 500

I didn't have to block it, but I don't want to count it as one of my followers, either.


§ ita § - Aug 05, 2013 8:11:57 am PDT #1377 of 30000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I figure people who run porn tumblrs don't read only porn tumblrs--some are "liking" my fanart, and I don't have anything that would qualify for their sites.

I found this [link] Coursera course interesting. It's described thusly:

Focused on Tolkien and The Lord of the Rings Online, this course explores what happens to stories and films when they are turned into online games.

and has a workload of 2-4 hours a week. As a non-gamer who wants to know what happens to stories when they're turned into games? Perfectamundo.


Amy - Aug 05, 2013 9:13:01 am PDT #1378 of 30000
Because books.

We're quiet today. And ita has reminded me I have homework to do.

Consuela, I'm sorry about your dad. Echoing what everyone else has said and hoping the doctor has some suggestions. Maybe he would benefit from a day program for the company and the activities?


§ ita § - Aug 05, 2013 9:24:13 am PDT #1379 of 30000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Many of the Coursera courses I've looked at have homework and homework+talent streams. Is auditing a popular option at edX? Because they could be my new favourite.

I have been getting shit accomplished, which is non-trivial, and supposedly good.

And I just realised that one of the guys sitting near me seems to have stopped working here two weeks ago. It will sound really dumb to ask what happened to him now, huh? I guess I could say I thought he was on holiday (I kinda did, but now his name tag is gone, and I realise someone else has kind of been sitting at his desk this whole time).

The guy next to me has individualised ring tones, and his sister's is "Your sister is attempting to reach you on your cellular device." Is that a thing?

Note to self: Low g-i chocolate muffins are *small*. Bring two, also bake some of the apple banana ones.


Tom Scola - Aug 05, 2013 9:56:58 am PDT #1380 of 30000
Mr. Scola’s wardrobe by Botany 500

Adult-sized Bigwheel.


Sophia Brooks - Aug 05, 2013 10:01:33 am PDT #1381 of 30000
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

I believe that all Coursera and EdX courses are technically audits. They have a VERY low completion rate-- less than 7% (http://www.insidehighered.com/news/2013/05/10/new-study-low-mooc-completion-rates)

Also, they really sound great for what you guys are using them for, but they are being marketed to Universities as replacements for required courses that are cheaper than having to pay faculty. [link]