Xander: How? What? How? Giles: Three excellent questions.

Xander/Giles ,'Never Leave Me'


Natter 72: We Were Unprepared for This  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Jesse - Nov 22, 2013 7:38:00 am PST #12660 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Holy crap, Matt.


§ ita § - Nov 22, 2013 7:57:37 am PST #12661 of 30000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Matt, I'm sincerely hoping some of those "arts" are the complexity of...uh...paragraph separators and...I can't really think of anything simple enough to justify 58, honestly.

Hey, JA: [link] !


Jesse - Nov 22, 2013 8:00:53 am PST #12662 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Oh hey, speaking of which (JA, I mean), Usain Bolt was on The Voice this week, in support of Tessanne Chin (and also his new book?).


msbelle - Nov 22, 2013 8:04:02 am PST #12663 of 30000
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

huh, not kimchi for Korea.


brenda m - Nov 22, 2013 8:05:35 am PST #12664 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Oh, that JA.


Consuela - Nov 22, 2013 8:16:57 am PST #12665 of 30000
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

Yikes, Jesse! I hope everything turns out okay.

I really need to go do some paperwork/banking with my dad today, but I think I have an upset stomach. Which I hope is unrelated to the seafood stew I had at a friend's house last night (because that would suck).

So for the time being I shall sit on the futon and surf the internet.


SuziQ - Nov 22, 2013 8:20:45 am PST #12666 of 30000
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Teachers - I need some help. Yesterday CJ and I met with his counselor regarding his chemistry class and teacher. We ended up pulling him out of chemistry, which is an automatic F. Believe it or not, that was the best solution. He can take summer school to overwrite the grade. In addition to other issues, she often uses CJ as the negative example for chemistry interactions. Last night I got an e-mail from the teacher after she had learned that he had dropped the class. Here is just one portion of it...

First and foremost, I want to apologize if I had made [CJ]feel embarrassed or belittled in any way shape or form. I know [CJ] has a pretty strong idea of what his future will be like and I think that is awesome. I know I made an example with prom/dancing and involved [CJ] and other students. I had zero intention embarrassing him. I had only hoped it would provide a visual to help them understand an abstract chemistry concept. I picked [CJ] intentionally because he seems well mannered and able to take a few jokes thrown in his way. Jokes are only funny if the other person also find it funny instead of an offense. If he felt this way, I have misjudged, went too far, or touched on a sensitive topic. Regardless, I apologize for this.

it goes on and on from there. I'm sorry - "I apologize if" is never an apology.

He has struggled in this class from the start and this latest example included calling CJ unpopular and a loser which is why his prom date (the other chemical element) left him.

I just can't even. His counselor was going to talk to the Principal today about the issues I raised yesterday. I forwarded the full e-mail to the counselor so she can see how this teacher communicates.


Jesse - Nov 22, 2013 8:25:41 am PST #12667 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Oh good lord, Suzi!

I can't decide if I should call my mom or not. I'm so glad to be cozy and watching TV here, and imagine she's doing paperwork and whatever, so I'm in no rush to go back to the hospital, but I also don't know if I should cancel my plans tonight, and really should be packing, but I don't wanna. The end.


Jessica - Nov 22, 2013 8:25:57 am PST #12668 of 30000
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

In addition to other issues, she often uses CJ as the negative example for chemistry interactions.

WHAT THE FUCK. I would be on the fucking WARPATH if a teacher ever did that to my kid.


SuziQ - Nov 22, 2013 8:31:15 am PST #12669 of 30000
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

It has only been in the last week that he has given me solid examples. Which is what made me make the appointment with the counselor. As upset as I was before, her e-mail really inflamed the mama-bear anger.

Jokes one on one are one thing, though you still have to be careful. But from an authority figure in front of a class? That abuses the teacher/student relationship.