Don't worry, we're sure to spot Faith first. She's like this cleavagy slut-bomb walking around 'Ooh, check me out, I'm wicked-cool, I'm five-by-five.'

Willow ,'Get It Done'


Natter 72: We Were Unprepared for This  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


SuziQ - Nov 05, 2013 8:41:05 am PST #11156 of 30000
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

I feel like I just got spoiled for my annual physical, which is this afternoon. My lab results were posted and all my numbers look great, except for my B12. YAY for solid cholestorol numbers. Not that I was worried about them, but nice to see.


Burrell - Nov 05, 2013 8:42:45 am PST #11157 of 30000
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Ugh Consuela, that's so ugly. And what makes it uglier is you're right, they took advantage of the fact that you are nice and think well of others and aren't sneaky and manipulative. Phooey.


Matt the Bruins fan - Nov 05, 2013 8:42:51 am PST #11158 of 30000
Oh honey, the mentally unwell people have been in the fanbase since Game Changers was Stucky fanfiction on the internet. The calls have been coming from inside the house the whole time!

not to mention that he's running against the one person in the race to single out being against marriage equality as her signature issue even though it has NOTHING AT ALL TO DO WITH THE CITY COUNCIL.

Maybe she should put out flyers with a big red x through a picture of Neil Patrick Harris and his family in Halloween costumes, just to be sure she gets the message across?


Steph L. - Nov 05, 2013 8:47:26 am PST #11159 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

the one person in the race to single out being against marriage equality as her signature issue even though it has NOTHING AT ALL TO DO WITH THE CITY COUNCIL.

I knew a guy in high school who was so proud of the fact that the only city council candidate he voted for was the one who was a member of Right to Life, even though City Council has nothing to do with reproductive rights (or the ganking thereof). And when I said as much, asking him what the point was voting for someone who had a position on something Council will never address, he said it proved she was the only one with strong moral character, and if the other candidates don't respect unborn life, how can we know they respect the lives of city residents?

He was a varsity level douchebag, in case that wasn't clear.

Also, that candidate didn't win.


Amy - Nov 05, 2013 8:50:42 am PST #11160 of 30000
Because books.

Oh god, Consuela, that's upsetting. I hope the cat's okay, too.


Jesse - Nov 05, 2013 8:55:28 am PST #11161 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I don't understand why someone with a dog they know is dangerous and lunges after cats would walk it on a flexi-lead. That's just asking for trouble.

Because people are terrible.

And when I said as much, asking him what the point was voting for someone who had a position on something Council will never address, he said it proved she was the only one with strong moral character, and if the other candidates don't respect unborn life, how can we know they respect the lives of city residents?

See? Terrible.

I had a supremely satisfying conversation earlier where I called someone to say I was dealing with something because another colleague was on vacation, and she said, "Oh good -- I'd much rather deal with you! He's such a pain in the ass!" Which is what I generally think, and generally try to keep to myself. So I'm relieved it's not just me.


Typo Boy - Nov 05, 2013 9:06:00 am PST #11162 of 30000
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.

Voted Sunday. (We are a vote by mail state. Voting means: put your ballot in the mail, or drop it in a drop box.) Voted against one woman near tea partier. Identity politics is very problematic. Not support for women's rights or rights of people of color or gay rights, and generally being against oppression based on identity. But the actual belief that being a member of an oppressed group entitles you to support of that group regardless of actual politics. Women can oppose women's right. Black people can support all kinds of stuff that is horrible for Black people. (Hi, Clarence Thomas and your support of suppressing voting rights.) Personal experience does matter, so other things being approximately equal it does make sense to choose someone other than a white male where possible. But relying on that alone is a really dangerous heuristic. (Until last year, I was represented by a Latina right wing Republican Latina, and I'm pretty sure the "Latina" part had a lot to do with it. Now represented by a "centrist" white male Democrat pretty much fellates the military and corporations, but at least votes decently on social issues and whose staff was actually helpful in navigating my exchange. (Tip, if you need help with the exchanges, call your congrescritter if she or he is a Democrat. Call the congresscritter for nearest Democratic district if yours is Republican, because many Republican congresscritters will deliberately give bad or misleading advice in order to increase the chances of Obamacare failing.)


§ ita § - Nov 05, 2013 9:08:59 am PST #11163 of 30000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

IO9 ran a "fanfic friday" for a while in which one of their regular commenters ripped a random fanfic to shreds. There was a weak disclaimer saying he likes some fanfics, this is just a bad one.

He'd come over from a popular site, and that had been a regular draw there, but I wrote in that unless they were giving weight to celebrating fanfic (like they do fanart all the time--just calling it concept art), this made them sound petty and shrewish and like the bad guys. For a site run by two gay women which will bring up slash organically from time to team in non-demeaning ways, is this really how you want to be positioned?

I was not the only petitioned for the end of the piece (not the guy--he's good at other stuff--his barbed wit is better served someone other than a sixteen year old who's exploring concepts (and anuses) with a story that is enjoyed by someone. You don't have to like everything, but you don't have to use a megaphone when you're not liking either...

The people pissed at the removal were almost all male (and many came over from his site, which was male dominated, with stereotypical values given to manly expressions of geekdom), but the people that petitioned seemed to be fifty fifty.


Connie Neil - Nov 05, 2013 9:15:00 am PST #11164 of 30000
brillig

I love the term congresscritter. If I should ever run into Mike Lee--he's from my district, I did vote against him for what it's worth, which isn't much in this state, which adores him--I believe I'll call him that. Though I doubt they'd let me get close enough.


Consuela - Nov 05, 2013 9:18:02 am PST #11165 of 30000
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

I remember that, ita. And that's bad enough: I do think it's even worse when you're going after people in your own community. That guy on I09 was, presumably, not on the same mailing lists and forums with the writers he was mocking.