You can't open the book of my life and jump in the middle. Like woman, I'm a mystery.

Mal ,'Our Mrs. Reynolds'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


erin_obscure - Feb 16, 2014 9:54:26 pm PST #9351 of 30002
Occasionally I’m callous and strange

Yeah, if the cats turn up their noses at tuna, the hooman should not consume it.

Omnis, that's awesome. Total good deed. I'd send you Girl Scout cookies if i could

{{{{Cass}}}}} In totally unrelated news, did I tell you how impresses a couple of my coworkers were when I showed up for that Halloween party in an actual racing jumpsuit? And that it was pink? Tres impressive.

And utterly unimpressive, I woke up to a FB message guilt trip from my former stepmother that I didn't send her a VD card. Seriously, she took the time to tell me how bummed she was to not get a card from me. She knows what i'm dealing with physically right now, that I need narcotics to get through the night and am barely getting through the day with TENS. I didn't even call my mom last wk, and i'm so *&^*&$#$ cranky and irritable from all the pain and no sleep that the message set me off way more than it should have. Really, I have to apologize to my father's ex wife for not sending HER a VD card? Seriously? I just....don't even....ugh.


meara - Feb 16, 2014 10:19:45 pm PST #9352 of 30002

...you're supposed to send Valentine's cards to parental types? Wow, I did not get that memo at all. How bizarre. I mean, I suppose if you were all up on FB about "Oh, I made Valentines for EEEEERRRRYBODY!" and didn't send her one, maybe. But still.


erin_obscure - Feb 16, 2014 10:37:11 pm PST #9353 of 30002
Occasionally I’m callous and strange

I do usually send one to her, while I"m sending one to my sister. I also usually send one to my mom, and then call her, because she appreciates acknowledgment of....everything. And likes reassurance that i'm still alive and functioning. I could get a little guilting for neglecting my 17 yo sister (and I do feel bad for neglecting both my sister and my mom) but of course the guilt trip came from the one person i really don't feel guilty about forgetting. But that made me feel guilty for forgetting everyone else, and not being a good sister/daughter/friend which is kind of a sore spot since i've been wussing out of social engagements right and left lately in favor of sitting on my sofa and Not Driving. Ugh. Meansuit is totally letting my down and added fibrofog makes me want to give up on everything since i'm totally failing at life right now.


omnis_audis - Feb 17, 2014 12:54:26 am PST #9354 of 30002
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

Omnis, that's awesome. Total good deed. I'd send you Girl Scout cookies
perks up, eyes open wide in anticipation

if i could
pouts

It's the thought that counts, I suppose.

ION - why am I still watching Curling? Also, since learning there are little LED lights on either side of the handle, that light green if it is released prior to the line, red if after, I'm nearly obsessed with watching those damn things as the stone slides down the ice.


Calli - Feb 17, 2014 1:15:13 am PST #9355 of 30002
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I can see how curling could get hypnotic. And there's all kinds of strategic physics, too. Anyway, go you with the active neighborliness, Omnis!


beth b - Feb 17, 2014 5:23:30 am PST #9356 of 30002
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

Last night Nathaniel, my cancer cat did not eat . this morning he is lethargic. Like I put him on the couch and there he sits. he won't purr. So I have to call the vet. Part of me is really really scared. A tiny part of me is pissed because today was supposed to be a day off with nothing scheduled.


WindSparrow - Feb 17, 2014 5:54:37 am PST #9357 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Oh beth, I'm sorry today is not the peaceful, relaxing day you deserve. All the best purr-vibes to Nathaniel.


Dana - Feb 17, 2014 7:49:15 am PST #9358 of 30002
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

Has anyone ever used AZO test strips to self-diagnose a UTI? I can't decide if I'm sick or not, and these would be cheaper and easier than a doctor visit.


Beverly - Feb 17, 2014 8:13:47 am PST #9359 of 30002
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Best thoughts to you, Beth, and to Nathaniel.

(((Cass))) In my thoughts. Always.

omnis, that was a wonderful thing to do. That's a thing to bask in on dark, pointless days.

I am womanfully restraining myself from expressing a public opinion of erin-o's former relative by marriage. Not my place, man.

Feel better, Zen.

Nice delayed Valentine's Day, sj.

I missed the convo about parental shortcomings, but I resonated like a tuning fork to much of it. I'd love to hear what my kid has to say about us, now that he's an adult. I know we screwed up along the way.

Hey y'all. I've been reading along, just fighting through a period of inarticulate. So, hi.


Nora Deirdre - Feb 17, 2014 8:28:37 am PST #9360 of 30002
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Has anyone ever used AZO test strips to self-diagnose a UTI?

I have, it told me I had one. So I went to the walk in clinic and told them that I'd done it, it expedited the process. They still took a sample from me while there, but told me it was just in case the a-b's didn't work.