Actually, I was thinking it would be sort of like a pet. You know, we could...we could name her Trixie, or Miss Kitty Fantastico, or something.

Tara ,'Empty Places'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Calli - Feb 12, 2014 6:38:33 am PST #9188 of 30002
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

The worst part is, I could really use some actual fatherly advice right now.

I wish my father was here to provide it for you. For whatever it might be worth, it would probably be, "With all due respect--if any is due at all--to your father, get the degree. One class per semester, if that's what you can afford. It'll take a long time that way, but it'll take even longer if you don't take the classes at all."

I miss Dad. His father didn't think school or books were worth much (Dad actually had to hide his book reading as a kid, because Granddad would tell him to knock it off and go do something "useful"), but Dad's service in WWII helped him get a degree via the GI Bill.

ETA: That's great, Pix!


Sparky1 - Feb 12, 2014 6:50:36 am PST #9189 of 30002
Librarian Warlord

Have we heard from Ginger today? I wonder if she's already lost power.


Maria - Feb 12, 2014 7:00:55 am PST #9190 of 30002
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift

Thank you all for the birthday wishes! And happy, happy birthday to Pix!

Congrats also to Pix. I'm just getting a snowstorm and a house.

Many hugs and brackets for those that need them. While my parents aren't perfect, and they've screwed me up a bit mentally, they are good people whom I'm lucky to have as my folks. I'm sure they wouldn't mind adopting a few more. You will definitely be stuffed full of food and homemade wine.


omnis_audis - Feb 12, 2014 7:12:17 am PST #9191 of 30002
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

Heard quote on NPR this morning, talking about cost of college education. Went something like, "the only thing that costs more than a college education, is not having one."


Aims - Feb 12, 2014 7:15:17 am PST #9192 of 30002
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Sean - he puts you in a no-win situation. Go to school with no plan he can see = bad. Not going = bad. I say go, get your own damn plan, and he'll see it if he wants to. If he doesn't, screw him. You see it and that's what matters, babe. It takes a lot of work and a lot of time, but it's freaking worth it. I promise.


omnis_audis - Feb 12, 2014 7:20:18 am PST #9193 of 30002
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

Sean, it seems to me, the folks who know you (i.e. Us), know you can do it. If your father says otherwise, clearly, he doesn't know you that well. I have confidence in your abilities. You can do it!


erikaj - Feb 12, 2014 7:32:17 am PST #9194 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!

My dad just...sort of reflexively craps on any idea I ever have. Maybe he's negative, or maybe it's something about us together, but... I say get started. It might not be what you need to do, but from that you could find something else.


WindSparrow - Feb 12, 2014 7:38:53 am PST #9195 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Sean, I am so glad that so many others are weighing in on this. Because I have issues around going back to school. You should totally get your degree so you can make me envious. And proud. Incidentally, as regards fields of study - I started out with chemistry, then changed to psychology before dropping out.


Ginger - Feb 12, 2014 8:05:50 am PST #9196 of 30002
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

I have power, and so far things seem to be considerably less apocalyptic than predicted. The roads are a mess, but nobody's driving except sand trucks and TV reporters.

Completely unrelated to the weather, I managed to pull something in my back that’s really painful. In the ultimate non-sports injury, I was reaching behind my head to adjust a pillow and something went “pop.” I hope I haven’t broken another damn rib.

My mother and sister go through periods of rewriting my father.


WindSparrow - Feb 12, 2014 8:18:18 am PST #9197 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Geez, Ginger, I hope you haven't broken a rib either.