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Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Aims - Jan 07, 2014 10:31:00 am PST #7899 of 30002
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Was it a thing you did on accident or thought you were supposed to do?


brenda m - Jan 07, 2014 10:32:42 am PST #7900 of 30002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Talk to your manager about it now.


flea - Jan 07, 2014 10:33:06 am PST #7901 of 30002
information libertarian

What Brenda said. Get out ahead of it.


Aims - Jan 07, 2014 10:33:23 am PST #7902 of 30002
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Yep.


le nubian - Jan 07, 2014 10:36:13 am PST #7903 of 30002
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

agrees with brenda 100%.


le nubian - Jan 07, 2014 10:36:43 am PST #7904 of 30002
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

brenda, btw, you can quote my last post in your performance evaluation for this year.


meara - Jan 07, 2014 10:43:23 am PST #7905 of 30002

It's a thing that technically I shouldn't have done, but normally wouldn't have been a big issue (SOMEONE is supposed to do it, but not me--in many cases, the person would've been "oh, yeah, let me do that again in an official way", or possibly "Hey, you shouldn't do that, please don't again, let me do it officially"), but in this case the people are awful to deal with, and in bitching about other stuff I was asking them to do, decided to fight back by being like "OMG she did this!". So, yeah.

(And I'm not really sure what to say to my manager about it, other than "yeah, thinking about it I shouldn't have done it, and it was something of a brainfart for me to do it, rather than just tell them to do it, but they were being useless and not doing anything I told them so I wanted to see if it existed before I added it to the long list of things for them to do")


lisah - Jan 07, 2014 10:47:59 am PST #7906 of 30002
Punishingly Intricate

I think a slightly revised version is what you say to your boss. something like "I wasn't sure if they did it so I did. I realize that was a mistake." Definitely bring it up before they do.


brenda m - Jan 07, 2014 10:50:28 am PST #7907 of 30002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I would say "just wanted to give you a heads-up. I took care of X because I wasn't sure it had been done. That's not the protocol, and while normally it wouldn't be a big deal, in this case the staff a X are upset about it and will probably bring it to your attention."

That way she's not's blindsided by a big complaint that she doesn't know how to respond to. And plus you look all responsible and accountable and shit.


le nubian - Jan 07, 2014 10:51:05 am PST #7908 of 30002
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

in addition to what lisah said, I wonder if there is a way to be proactive later: like since these people are being nightmarish, is there a way your boss can offer suggestions or help in dealing with them?