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Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Sue - Jan 04, 2014 9:52:33 am PST #7769 of 30002
hip deep in pie

meara - Jan 04, 2014 9:55:36 am PST #7770 of 30002

I'm going the first two weeks in September--the vague plan so far is to start in Prague, spend a few days there, and then head to Poland, hit Krakow and maybe some other places, and my flight leaves from Warsaw. But it's a very vague plan. (My brother is planning to meet me for at least part of it, since he lives in the Czech Republic)


Aims - Jan 04, 2014 11:53:20 am PST #7771 of 30002
Shit's all sorts of different now.

t posting this here b/c I can't on FB

It is perfectly okay for me to feel the way I feel about the thing I am feeling the feels about. I am allowed to feel feels if I have the feels. It doesn't make me horrible, it doesn't mean there is something wrong with me, it just means I have feels.


omnis_audis - Jan 04, 2014 11:53:25 am PST #7772 of 30002
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

OK, everything is sorted by type and account. Now. Time to start the purge. It seems I've saved a LOT of pay stubs. And the experts say to save the last one of the year, and toss the rest. I've saved a LOT of cable, electric, and gas bills. Again, save the december statement, toss the rest.

Yes, I come from a long line of hoarders. Yes, I am trying to combat it. Yes, I will have a lot to take to the shredder.

The crappy thing about this big to-do, is, for the most part, it was self contained in the file cabinet. All this work will not show much difference in the "look what I did". Doesn't help one feel a sense of accomplishment. Sigh. At least it will feel good to declutter.


SuziQ - Jan 04, 2014 12:13:56 pm PST #7773 of 30002
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Feel all your feels, Aims. Your feels are what make you Aims.

Go Omnis. I need to do a paper purge soon.


WindSparrow - Jan 04, 2014 12:21:37 pm PST #7774 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Feel all your feels, Aims. Your feels are what make you Aims.

Perzactly.

I am not commenting on people's travel plans other than to say, I kinda love this sort of envy cuz wonderful people are going to go amazing places. I wish I could go too, but ... no, not but... AND I am very excited for you.


sj - Jan 04, 2014 1:37:03 pm PST #7775 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Feel all your feels, Aims. Your feels are what make you Aims.

What Suzi said.


meara - Jan 04, 2014 2:06:55 pm PST #7776 of 30002

Having feels is valid, Aims.

Omnis, I'm impressed! I just did a bunch of "toss all the bills into one box and separate out the few important things", and put some stuff online, but what I'm never sure of is how long (a) I need to keep things and (b) which if any things I need hardcopy. I mean, some stuff it might be useful but not important to have, and other stuff, do I need the original for? Heck, I don't even get paystubs emailed or sent to me, I have to go on the company website to get one (and I pretty much never do). Likewise bank statements. Though I have bills sent to me hardcopy for fear I'd forget to pay them otherwise.


askye - Jan 04, 2014 2:20:01 pm PST #7777 of 30002
Thrive to spite them

Aimee feel all you can feel.

So, I have water. And hot water in the kitchen and the bathroom sink. But no hot water in the bathtub. Have no idea what's going on with that but it looks like it will be a few days before it's figured out.

This morning wasn't fun getting ready for work.

Work was okay and it's not that cold. Although it's still damn cold, although it's going to warm up. Just long enough for some stuff to start melting, and then freeze again.

I need to actually start using my shredder before I throw things in recycling.


omnis_audis - Jan 04, 2014 2:23:59 pm PST #7778 of 30002
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

Meara, I did a google search for "how long to save pay stubs" and this was the first hit:

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They say you can toss most papers after 3 years. But, I'm still a bit of a hoarder. So, bank statements, saving every one I can find. Brokerage and retirement statements, same thing. Pay stubs, I will follow the advice for places I work all the time. For one off's or short term gigs, I save all stubs.

Now the question... what to do with greeting cards, letters, etc? They don't file well, and I find I have many small boxes filled with them. That's what's junking up my closet.

So I got banking statements sorted and paper clipped by year. Utility bills have been sorted and thinned. Running low on light in the bedroom and low on energy, plus Mom will be over soon to watch the Philly Eagles game, so I called it a day. Lots of progress. After mom leaves, I may try and sort my retirement account stuff. Oye, that's a thick folder from old job, which was twice a month. Current job is quarterly, so that file is a lot thinner.

All this would have been a LOT easier if I had just filed as I went. I suppose that's my New Year's Resolution this year. To get back on track with personal papers/bills/banking stuff. God forbid, if something horrible happens to me, and a family member had to go through all this? Would not help the healing process, I tell you what.