Angel: I appreciate you guys looking out for Connor all summer. It's just—he's confused. He needs time. That's all. Fred: Right. Time, and some corporal punishment with a large heavy mallet. Not that I'm bitter.

'Just Rewards (2)'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Nora Deirdre - Dec 05, 2013 6:37:56 pm PST #6872 of 30002
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

much ~ma, Connie.


le nubian - Dec 05, 2013 6:44:00 pm PST #6873 of 30002
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

oh Connie. Couldn't he have left you with a note!?! Gads!

good vibes and ma, regardless.


Ginger - Dec 05, 2013 6:44:45 pm PST #6874 of 30002
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

It's nothing serious ~ma to your Hubby, Connie. I'm sorry you're left worrying until he comes home. Not knowing is the worst.


omnis_audis - Dec 05, 2013 7:42:50 pm PST #6875 of 30002
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

Tons of health~ma for your hubby, Connie.

========== Sean, the hardest part is starting. Inertia/momentum, what ever you want to call it. Once you have some, it does get easier. Keep your chin up. Don't give up. Hope is a powerful thing. You have a room full of people here who believe in you. And like Pix says, we are here to help.

As you make your walks around, and inquiries, it might be a good idea to keep a log, of who you talked to, what date, and what business.


WindSparrow - Dec 05, 2013 7:45:12 pm PST #6876 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Health~ma for Niki and for Connie's DH.


Scrappy - Dec 05, 2013 8:04:52 pm PST #6877 of 30002
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Sean, what they all said. I have a GED too, and I have always treated it like a high school diploma. Speaking as someone who works in hiring, for many, many jobs college is less important than experience and intelligence.


Connie Neil - Dec 05, 2013 8:10:57 pm PST #6878 of 30002
brillig

He just came home.

Lymphoma. All through his torso. 14 "bright spots that really got their attention" and "lots of little ones."

We see the surgeon for the consult for when to do the biopsy on Tuesday. If I get one jot of pushback on taking time off from work, there will be words.

he's been having this pain and trying to deal with it for nearly 2 years. One of the treatments he got gave him some relief, and he was told "If this help, then it's not cancer," and they gave him that treatment because the test would have cost thousands out of pocket. Though he's on Medicare for a fucking reason! But anyway. He apparently heard the wolf howl in my brain, because he asked me not to blame the doctors.

This is supposed to be very responsive to chemo, and he's had two bouts of cancer already in his life. And he's a mutant (truly, his body does not respond to things typically). People survive this stuff all the time.

Look, pyramids.


Connie Neil - Dec 05, 2013 8:11:23 pm PST #6879 of 30002
brillig

And he's far more worried about me.


Pix - Dec 05, 2013 8:11:47 pm PST #6880 of 30002
The status is NOT quo.

Oh Connie. I'm so sorry. We are here for you.


meara - Dec 05, 2013 8:15:02 pm PST #6881 of 30002

Oh Connie, how hard. I hope it all goes as well as it can.