What? She killed 'em with mathematics. What else could it have been?

Jayne ,'Objects In Space'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


sj - Nov 06, 2013 2:59:56 pm PST #6091 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

{{{Burrell}} I'm sorry that it is all so hard.

Nora, are you thinking of buying something in NO?

I thought there was a difference between psychopaths and sociopaths only because Sherlock corrected a detective about which he was in the BBC show. But otherwise, I don't know much about it.

I'm ridiculously tired today for no good reason and keep dropping things. Including a cobalt glass plate that shattered into more pieces than I thought possible. I reserved a book for a book signing tomorrow, but now I'm not sure if I want to go or if I even have enough spoons to stand in line that long.


Steph L. - Nov 06, 2013 4:19:38 pm PST #6092 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I thought there was a difference between psychopaths and sociopaths only because Sherlock corrected a detective about which he was in the BBC show.

The self-described sociopath who I know is *extremely* fond of quoting that line from Sherlock, complete with an attempt at an accent. I just feel like if you're that committed to letting everyone know you're a sociopath, you're not a sociopath. You're just trying to get a reaction.


Connie Neil - Nov 06, 2013 4:30:56 pm PST #6093 of 30002
brillig

I told Hubby about self-confessed sociopaths, and his reaction was "Oh, how kind of them to identify themselves, we can get a recording and send it to the police as fair warning."


askye - Nov 06, 2013 5:48:34 pm PST #6094 of 30002
Thrive to spite them

I don't know about sociopaths. Except what I see on Criminal Minds and I know that's not accurate.

So, work is hitting a rough patch, mostly due to technical problems and a little bit because I'm getting conflicting information. My department manager is telling me to look to my resources on the employee system before asking people, but other people are telling me to ask people first.

And parts of the employee system frequently go down so there's no way to look them up anyway. Or I'm doing key word searches the way I think things should be phrased but doesn't work with the company's phrasing.

I brought up the idea of making a binder with useful information and told my dept manager but he started to shut it down becuase he doesn't like binders, but I pitched him the idea and he asked for a mock up. So I need to mock something up.

The other full time person in my position gave her 2 weeks notice yesterday, but I think they approached a guy who is a full time cashier and has worked at the store for several years for the position. I kind of hope he gets it because we get along and work well together.

This is all really long but if you've read that far I could use some suggestions for portable, non messy (to carry or eat), filling snacks. Preferable things that don't need refrigeration and are not hummus (I don't like hummus). It's really hard to find someone to cover my position and there's usually overlap between the opening and closing person but that not until 2 or 3 in the afternoon.

And they rearranged our little pick up/phone area so it's less private and customers can see more. So I'm looking for snacks I could shove in a desk drawer and nibble on.


Cass - Nov 06, 2013 5:50:46 pm PST #6095 of 30002
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

Snack pack sizes of almonds.


Burrell - Nov 06, 2013 6:05:34 pm PST #6096 of 30002
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Almonds are a good idea. I usually bring a little container of roasted nuts to work so I can snack on them all day. I'm also a big fan of Kind bars, especially the sea salt and dark chocolate bar.


Nora Deirdre - Nov 06, 2013 6:24:11 pm PST #6097 of 30002
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Nora, are you thinking of buying something in NO?

Thinking about it vaguely. It's not something we need to do, but I liked the look of this place despite the work it needs and the location is right next to a super booming area.


Scrappy - Nov 06, 2013 7:13:30 pm PST #6098 of 30002
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Small bags of baby carrots. Presliced apples.


DavidS - Nov 06, 2013 7:28:57 pm PST #6099 of 30002
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Sociopaths are not all criminals! They may determine that it's disadvantageous to commit crimes. There are reputedly a lot of them in high finance where having no conscience is useful.


P.M. Marc - Nov 06, 2013 7:59:06 pm PST #6100 of 30002
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Burrell, that's rough.

I'm perfectly willing to accept that there are plenty of sociopaths out there. I'm just thinking if I were a sociopath I wouldn't tell anyone. Unless sociopaths put a high value on honesty, but why would they?

Not according to the DSM! Being a poopy lie head is a diagnostic criteria!

I mean, neither socio or psychopath is a diagnosis--it's all anti-social personality disorder, as mentioned above. There's some weaseling around where some professionals use them to distinguish between nurture made and nature made. All that said, I'm not 100% sold on the whole concept of personality disorders as currently defined, given the givens, the demographics generally labelled as such, and given the softness of the science when it comes to mental health issues.

I mean, fuck, it's not all that far removed from humours at times.