Hi Shir, yes, you used both correctly. Sorry about the poor sleep!
My work's illegal, but at least it's honest.
Mal ,'Shindig'
Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
javachik - Sep 09, 2013 9:02:01 pm PDT #4482 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.
meara - Sep 09, 2013 10:12:45 pm PDT #4483 of 30002
Ugh. Had long-awaited date. Thought it was going ok but maybe not super hot (entertaining but not touchy, but some folks aren't). Drive her back to her place, thought she might be like "ok great to meet you bye!" Instead she invited me in for coffee. I thought that was code for "let's make out", but apparently it's code for "let me give you a tour of my apartment and make you tea and chat and when you eventually say you need to get going, back away from a kiss". Uh, ok....
Shir - Sep 10, 2013 12:42:05 am PDT #4484 of 30002
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".
Thank you, java.
meara, I didn't read the history, but I hope your date is just a bit shy/needs time to open up to people.
erikaj - Sep 10, 2013 6:08:07 am PDT #4485 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!
I am that person. But have never dated Meara.
meara - Sep 10, 2013 6:28:18 am PDT #4486 of 30002
Erika, are you that person who invites someone in for coffee but doesn't want to make out? Or the super shy person who backs away when someone actually lays a kiss on you??
§ ita § - Sep 10, 2013 6:52:31 am PDT #4487 of 30002
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.
I've been both those people. Do kids have to make out on a first date these days? Maybe it's best I don't answer those OKCupid invitations (one of them did want oral sex--dude, I said I'd knock you out. That's not the same as "socks off", even if you want to go down on me)
erikaj - Sep 10, 2013 7:13:19 am PDT #4488 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!
I don't think I would back away, no, but mostly, I'm slow to warm up.
Toddson - Sep 10, 2013 7:16:32 am PDT #4489 of 30002
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"
The Buffistas - where the nesting instinct often refers to parentheses.
Hil R. - Sep 10, 2013 7:20:51 am PDT #4490 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l
Or the super shy person who backs away when someone actually lays a kiss on you??
I have done that, but it was mostly a startle reflex. Which then led to a super-awkward "No, I'm not scared of men because I was traumatized by some horrible event in my past -- I just startle easily" conversation.
§ ita § - Sep 10, 2013 7:34:48 am PDT #4491 of 30002
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.
Sometimes I don't know if I want to make out with someone yet (or I've made out with them before, and I don't know if I want to do it again then or there) and I dislike being encouraged to be apologetic about it (needless to say, we argued. It is actually all about the chemistry and the timing, not all about me (or all about the other person).