Giles, if you would like to get by in American society, then you are going to have to follow our traditions. You're the patriarch. You have to host the festivities, or it's all meaningless.

Buffy ,'Sleeper'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Cass - Aug 30, 2013 6:16:00 pm PDT #4087 of 30002
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

My friend K was in a bad car accident years ago and she lost her memory. She has regained most of it, but there are still gaps.

I know a woman here who is a total powerhouse but was in a terrible accident years ago and this is apparently what she is at 75%. She was a corporate raider of some flavor. Now she championships for the environment and wildlife corridors. I fear what she was at full power. But, yeah, she's different. And her life and goals are different.

What a lovely thing, Laura. Happy baby news.


smonster - Aug 30, 2013 6:27:29 pm PDT #4088 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Welcome to the world, Negasi! May you and your parents be blessed.

In other news, the petcare manager got a text from a woman I absolutely loathe today saying that she heard I'd been bitten by a dog and that I ordered it put down.

Oh, FFS. I think Typo Boy has the right idea. Facts and a warning. I'm not sure you even owe her an accounting.

I gave myself a rainbow glitter mani for Southern Decadence.


beekaytee - Aug 30, 2013 6:41:55 pm PDT #4089 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

Oh, FFS. I think Typo Boy has the right idea. Facts and a warning. I'm not sure you even owe her an accounting.

Typo's advice is good. I'll keep it in mind.

I sent her a message on facebook recounting the actual facts...because I was peeved. But, it went into her 'other' folder since we most assuredly are not 'friends', so she may not see it.

I love that I live in a village, but what that means is that word does travel. I have wracked my brain though and simply can't imagine who would have told her that.


SuziQ - Aug 30, 2013 6:49:01 pm PDT #4090 of 30002
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

bonny, you just reminded me to check my "other" FB folder. I had a message. From a guy in Arizona hitting on me. Ummmmm, ok. Why can't it be a local? And wtf. I thought my profile was pretty locked down. Will have to check security again.


beekaytee - Aug 30, 2013 7:36:19 pm PDT #4091 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

My profile is wide open and there were a few truly 'other' messages in there, including one of a guy hitting on me.

Any such gesture immediately sends up flags for me, so I didn't even see where he was from.

I'd never seen my other folder until today.


meara - Aug 30, 2013 9:40:56 pm PDT #4092 of 30002

Wow. I just danced the hell out of tonight. Still wish I was in New Orleans having fun with friends, but ah well. Danced a lot. With some awesome folks. Including one new dude who I ended up polka-ing with. Even though I don't know how to polka. It worked out after a couple minutes. Now my legs are so tired I can barely move them, as I lie here in bed. Wow.

Also had a few drinks. Mmm, drinks but WHY WHY WHY is the one person who is a fucking amazing dancer, and who I have chemistry on the dance floor with like whoa, a complete ass? I mean damn. I danced a few dances with her and its so hot, but I know she's a jackass. Boo.


WindSparrow - Aug 31, 2013 3:15:30 am PDT #4093 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

bonny, thanks for the reminder about the other folder. I checked mine and found an Amazon gift card from January from my bff. Funny thing is, she had asked a while back if I had gotten it, and since I was expecting to get it through email rather than Fb, I didn't think to look there.


beekaytee - Aug 31, 2013 3:50:15 am PDT #4094 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

Found gold! What a lovely surprise, Andi.


Steph L. - Aug 31, 2013 7:51:42 am PDT #4095 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Okay, here I go with the unexpectedly difficult editing test. If it's too crazy, I'm going to just start inserting swear words. But in a grammatically correct way: "The fucking patient was administered benazepril 10 mg for his goddamn hypertension." Boom.


Laura - Aug 31, 2013 8:08:34 am PDT #4096 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

meara, I love reading about you dancing until you drop. Sorry the hot dance partner is a jerk. I hope you are able to pretend she is a complete stranger while dancing. (and of course keep it that way)

Sounds like a plan to me, Steph! Also good luck.