Hubby went Coast Guard so as not to offend his Naval father and Marine mother and Everything Else Uncles. Though no one else was Air Force. That was Not Done.

Also, as I'm sure you know, no matter what he "signs up" for, there's no guarantee that he won't end up in combat. Not to say he shouldn't do it, but it's something to think about.

Right. But this is where I can't argue with him. His long term goal is fire and/or SWAT team related. Not sure what the chance of injury there is compared to the military, but they are all high risk.

Thanks everyone. If/when we ever do talk with the recruiter, I'm sure we will both have more questions and I'm glad there is a variety of experience here or one degree away.

I know a bunch of people who have gone Navy but don't know anyone who had gone into the Army in recent years.

One of the guys at karate is apparently Army JAG (just learned this a moment ago) and has offered to help CJ with any paperwork if things go to that point. I don't see this guy at the dojo often, but I may need to make a point to catch up with him there to pick his brain.

Yeah, CJ should keep ROTC in mind too...

I'm picturing CJ muttering, "Dammit, Auntie Buffistas, I'm just *thinking* about things!"

Heeeee. Probably. But the more information the better.

Update on the boy front. I picked him up at 7am because he has a court date at 8:30 and I took him for breakfast first. He tells me he has a place to stay. Girlfriend I met a couple days ago is going to get a place for them today. She is currently with parents. So I ask what she does for a living, as parents do. She's a stripper. Makes a bundle. I told him I have known several women that paid the bills stripping and that is not a problem for me. She is actually quite adorable. Hugged me and stuff. A bit short for him I would think, but whatever. So at least he has a roof over his head and a reason to shower, ya know. His phone got shut off last night so there's that complication.

So I feel a bit better. I just want him to fix stuff himself.

You know what I wish? I wish that he falls truly and deeply in love this this girl, so that after a modest amount of time sponging off her, he realizes he wants to do better by her. So piece by piece he starts putting the puzzle together.

I know it isn't most likely to happen. But... I hope.

He falls hard. He is that type of guy. He has had few girlfriends and when he does he is totally smitten. Girls have always flocked to him because he stands out with his height and brains but he stays friends with almost all of them. When he gets involved he is head over heels and then crushed if it ends. I don't know where this relationship is at but my hope is similar to yours Andi. I can see him striving to do good for the love of a woman. Who knows. She seems very sweet. I'll be spending time with her today after he gets out of court.

My pedi place has wifi. I may never leave.