Whoa! I... I think I'm having a thought. Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's a thought. Now I'm having a plan. Now I'm having a wiggins.

Xander ,'First Date'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


beekaytee - Aug 28, 2013 10:28:04 am PDT #3928 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

What Amy said.

I've known a couple of doctors who got their degrees on the job. They had to commit to...I think, but don't quote me on this...6 years post grad service. But, hey, free medical school does not grow on trees!


beekaytee - Aug 28, 2013 10:30:00 am PDT #3929 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

Please deliver me from the rampant incidence of common-sense-free people in my life.

One of the walkers got bitten by a cat...like 8 times...all over one calf and one hand. I now have photos of his hand, blown up to the size of a catcher's mitt.

I'm just hearing about this today...many days after the fact.

I can't keep slapping my forehead in frustration. I'm gonna give myself a concussion.


Trudy Booth - Aug 28, 2013 10:30:28 am PDT #3930 of 30002
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

Do I just reply and reaffirm my interest and editing skillz and tell them to send me the editing test, and *then* if I'm hired do I mention that I know my way around a dungeon? Or would mentioning it now -- in a brief, low-key way -- give me an advantage?

It think a brief low-key mention gives you an advantage. It advances you directly to the "don't have to worry about THIS one twigging out" pile. In fact, I'd wager that that asking about preferences was their low-key way of broaching the topic.


Sparky1 - Aug 28, 2013 11:00:05 am PDT #3931 of 30002
Librarian Warlord

Suzi, I don't have questions, but I would make sure I had a pen and paper in hand and that he saw me taking notes of everything he said, and asked him (if he made promises) to give/send such in writing.


beekaytee - Aug 28, 2013 11:16:48 am PDT #3932 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

Sparky is wise. Notes and documentation are key. If there is resistance to either...you know that isn't acceptable.


le nubian - Aug 28, 2013 11:34:12 am PDT #3933 of 30002
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

I would also make sure that anything he says about financial compensation and benefits is clearly explained and understood. Here is the promise. Is it the reality that most people are actually receiving XXX.

What are the financial and other benefits of joined the Army *now* vs. as an officer?


le nubian - Aug 28, 2013 11:34:12 am PDT #3934 of 30002
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

I would also make sure that anything he says about financial compensation and benefits is clearly explained and understood. Here is the promise. Is it the reality that most people are actually receiving XXX.

What are the financial and other benefits of joined the Army *now* vs. as an officer?


Toddson - Aug 28, 2013 11:38:46 am PDT #3935 of 30002
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

Suzi, I wish CJ the best. But ... you and he might want to be careful about recruiters. It may be merely anecdotal, but I've read about some recruiters who, under pressure to get people enlisted, would really push kids to sign up.


WindSparrow - Aug 28, 2013 12:16:29 pm PDT #3936 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Get all promised benefits in writing. Those promises are easy to give but often evaporate by means of whatever excuses can be found to deny them. And my dad's advice to anyone going in the military is to make 'em teach you a trade.


Strix - Aug 28, 2013 12:23:46 pm PDT #3937 of 30002
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Talk to the recruiter...but talk to people who have BEEN in the positions and/or branches CJ might be thinking of, instead of someone whose job is getting people to sign on the dotted line.

Steph, definitely mention that you are comfortable, or even enthusiastic, about editing BDSM or M/M, and are familiar with vocabulary and techniques. The letter will get you an editing test. The editing test gets you the job. You generally have 2 weeks for the test; ask them about what style guide and what dictionary they want you to use, if they don't tell you.