I've really got to learn to just do the damage and get out of town. It's the 'stay and gloat' that gets me every time.

Ethan Rayne ,'Potential'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Steph L. - Jan 31, 2017 8:48:28 am PST #28948 of 30002
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

It's not weak and stupid, askye. It's good self-care. It's great that you're taking care of yourself.


meara - Jan 31, 2017 10:03:35 am PST #28949 of 30002

Yeah, I have been so antsy all week, and I decided seeing the same articles again and again (either because more people shared them or because I was scrolling through the same newsfeed 8 times) was not good for me right now. I want to see the fashion and baby posts but I need to just get my news from the news. So I am going to try to not be up on fB except for events and messenger. We will see how that goes and how I feel. Hoping it will help.


Toddson - Jan 31, 2017 12:48:44 pm PST #28950 of 30002
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

I've put myself on restricted news - no TV news, radio only to get the weather and traffic, skim the newspapers, cautious about online news ... it's the only way I'm going to get through this.


sj - Jan 31, 2017 2:27:47 pm PST #28951 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

My right brace cracked completely in half while I was cooking dinner. I'm doing my best not to break down into tears at least until ltc goes to sleep.


Steph L. - Jan 31, 2017 3:07:36 pm PST #28952 of 30002
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

I am at a complete loss for emotions, you guys. I am blank right now.

We just found out that a friend of ours was found dead in his home. He was only 58. No details yet, so I have no idea. And details don't really matter anyway, because the outcome is the same.

I am seriously blank. It's too much to take in, on top of the massive pile of shit out there. Tim is the same way. Just blank.


JZ - Jan 31, 2017 3:15:09 pm PST #28953 of 30002
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

No words, Tep, just bearing withness.


EpicTangent - Jan 31, 2017 3:17:40 pm PST #28954 of 30002
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

God, so sorry Steph. Words are inadequate, but I send whatever vibes you and Tim need.


javachik - Jan 31, 2017 3:24:22 pm PST #28955 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

meara I am going to create a politics friends group and I'll leave you off that feed so that you don't have to unfollow me completely on the book of face.


Pix - Jan 31, 2017 3:27:23 pm PST #28956 of 30002
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

I'm so sorry, Steph.


Steph L. - Jan 31, 2017 3:28:06 pm PST #28957 of 30002
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

Apparently he had a heart attack last night, possibly in his sleep. 58 is too damn young. God damn. I'm getting all he'll-never-have-fruit-punch in my brain.