Plus date potential. Don't cross him off just because he is financially secure. Connections happen when they happen, regardless of where people are in their life arc.
Yes, I was a financial mess when Tom and I got together. I'd say the thing to do is, be honest when something's proposed that you can't afford and have some ideas about lower cost or free stuff to do. Like making out! Or cooking at home.
It was awkward at first, but it's easier in the long (and short) run than assuming he'll pay for stuff or making myself deeper in debt to keep up. I did dabble in both those poor choices at the start, and it wasn't great.
Nora is smart (DUH!).
Buffista gallbladders need to quit making stones and needing to be kicked out of the abdomen. sj, I hope whatever is ahead goes as smoothly as possible.
Thank, Suzi. My main concern would be how much help I might need taking care of ltc after surgery and for how long.
noo bad gallstones.
sj I hope everyting can go as smoothly as possible.
and they called me into work on Sat 4 am util 8 am. So yay extra hours and I'm not surprised . I didn't think the truck could be worked with only 2 people.
Everything hurts. And my apartment is a mess, which means that I've got to step over things that are on the floor, which hurts, but I hurt too much to really clean, either. And my kitchen light bulb burned out, and I can't reach it to replace it. This sucks.
Well crap. I've been off all day and I just figured out why. Today is the 15 year anniversary of my FIL's suicide. All of that came slamming back as soon as my brain caught up with me. I hate the brain weasels. Thank heaven for anxiety meds. And antidepressants. And cuddly pets.
Lots of hugs for those who want some.
I think I am still tired from fighting whatever bug this is. And I have a flare-up og angular cheilitis, which seems to be getting worse with the home remedies that usually help.
So last night I was thinking aboutique various things and I wondered something..
When any of you imagine having a conversation with someone or are thinking about writing anice interaction does that include body language or facial expressions?
And let me ask this...when you are readingoing a book do you picture people's face when there is not a description of their face?
Hm. To the first question: Sometimes. To a limited degree. Mostly not, I think. Second question: Pretty much no.
This probably means something.
