Weird love's better than no love.

Buffy ,'Dirty Girls'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Hil R. - Oct 21, 2016 7:58:20 am PDT #27173 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Absolutely everything in my life is in my calendar. I have had a horrible memory all my life, therefore good organizational skills. My calendar reminds me of all the usual business and pleasure appointments, birthdays and such, but also to take my vitamins, water the plants, everything. Computers changed my life.

I've started using a bullet journal, and it's helped me a whole lot. I like that it's flexible -- I was never able to get my weird schedule to work with the pre-printed planners -- and that everything goes in that one place. If I need to write something down to remember it, it goes there, and I don't have to think about "Does this go in the planner or in the address book?" or anything like that.


Steph L. - Oct 21, 2016 8:12:51 am PDT #27174 of 30002
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Andi, I don't think I said congratulations -- you really deserve this. (Which includes the raise. That's quite nice!)

Now I have Atarax for anxiety

My brother takes that, and he says it's not quite as effective as a benzo, but his doctor is reluctant to prescribe him a benzo since he's an addict.

I took the Atarax yesterday and it seems to work fine but it makes me really drowsy - like Benadryl but not as strong.

I've developed such a tolerance to Benadryl causing drowsiness that 1 doesn't even make a dent unless I am severely sleep-deprived. So you may develop a tolerance to the drowsiness while the drug still helps with the anxiety.

I seriously can't even remember if I tried Cymbalta among the merry-go-round of ADs I went on and off. I think it was Celexa, though.


askye - Oct 21, 2016 8:22:23 am PDT #27175 of 30002
Thrive to spite them

Andi congrats !

Zen I hope these meds work for you.

I've seen some "basic" bullet journals and it looks different than most of the stuff I've seen (which is elaborate and looks like too much work).


Steph L. - Oct 21, 2016 8:28:36 am PDT #27176 of 30002
I look more rad than Lutheranism

I have 2 links saved on the basics of bullet journaling (versus all the elaborate stuff on Pinterest and Instagram). Let me see if I can rustle them up.

t edit Here they are: [link] and [link]


Calli - Oct 21, 2016 8:29:15 am PDT #27177 of 30002
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Congratulations, WindSparrow!

Zenkitty, good luck with the new meds.

I live and die by my Outlook calendar. If it's not there, and doesn't yell at me to feed it, it doesn't exist.


Zenkitty - Oct 21, 2016 8:47:07 am PDT #27178 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

So you may develop a tolerance to the drowsiness while the drug still helps with the anxiety.

That would be ideal.

Thanks, all.


WindSparrow - Oct 21, 2016 9:28:09 am PDT #27179 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Thanks again, lovelies.

And Steph, thank you for the links about bullet journaling. I was thinking I may need to find a way to keep all the new info and other stuff organized. Dunno yet if this will be the way, but there has to be some way. The new job is going to be a lot more work. A lot, a lot.


Steph L. - Oct 21, 2016 9:37:22 am PDT #27180 of 30002
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Those 2 links showing how it can be done in a simple way made me realize it was a pretty good idea. Before I read those, it just looked complicated and way too time-intensive.

The new job is going to be a lot more work. A lot, a lot.

The transition might be overwhelming (they often can be), but you'll adjust well. They wouldn't have given you the job if you weren't the best person for it. They're lucky to have you.


lisah - Oct 21, 2016 9:40:03 am PDT #27181 of 30002
Punishingly Intricate

The transition might be overwhelming (they often can be), but you'll adjust well. They wouldn't have given you the job if you weren't the best person for it. They're lucky to have you.

True facts! Congratulations, WS!!!


Hil R. - Oct 21, 2016 10:32:01 am PDT #27182 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I've seen some "basic" bullet journals and it looks different than most of the stuff I've seen (which is elaborate and looks like too much work).

Steph's links are the same two that I would have linked, plus the video from [link] Some people make it into a whole art project, but it doesn't have to be. (I've added a few things beyond the basics to mine, but I pretty much started out with following the video, and then realized which things worked for me and which didn't, and modified stuff so that it would work better for me. Some of my pages are more artsy, and some are just writing, but the artsy ones are either things where I find that organizing it visually actually helps, or just pages where I doodled some borders and things around stuff that I'd written, when I had some extra time and nothing else to do, because it looked pretty. Days when I have a lot of stuff to do, the pages are pretty plain in terms of artsy stuff, but totally filled with things to do and notes and appointments and stuff.)