A year and a half ago, I could have eviscerated him with my thoughts. Now I can barely hurt his feelings. Things used to be so much simpler.

Anya ,'Dirty Girls'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


amyth - Oct 17, 2016 10:57:38 am PDT #26874 of 30002
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen

Interview ~ma, sumi.

Leg ~ma, Daniel. I hope for the best possible outcome.

sj, I'm sorry you have to deal with that from family.


Beverly - Oct 17, 2016 11:01:52 am PDT #26875 of 30002
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Leg~ma, interview~ma, wake up to reality~ma to clueless relatives.

Sigh. I just want to turn up the heat a notch, wrap you all in sweaters and scarves and blankets, and feed you soup, so you recognize how precious you are. This is screwing seriously with my career as a curmudgeon.


sj - Oct 17, 2016 11:02:50 am PDT #26876 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

To be clear, it wasn't directly aimed at me, but it was a post meant to shame mothers for using cellphones while feeding their babies. I'm just sick of all the mom shaming.


smonster - Oct 17, 2016 11:05:23 am PDT #26877 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Shit, women speak on the UN floor while breastfeeding. Baby is busy and happy. Moms can take a second to engage the outside world.


Maria - Oct 17, 2016 11:14:11 am PDT #26878 of 30002
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift

sj, it might as well have been. You're a mom. A mom who derives a lot from your online interactions. So while it is generally mom shaming, it's very much relevant to you. Please don't think you have to explain it away.

(Sorry, my indig-no meter has been broken by the last few days.)


Connie Neil - Oct 17, 2016 11:18:45 am PDT #26879 of 30002
brillig

OK, Constance, you need to eat, there's hours left in the day, your brain will only get more unhappy if you keep putting off getting food. Even the Puritans in your head need to eat.


Steph L. - Oct 17, 2016 11:23:23 am PDT #26880 of 30002
I look more rad than Lutheranism

OK, Constance, you need to eat, there's hours left in the day, your brain will only get more unhappy if you keep putting off getting food.

I've been terrible about eating breakfast and even lunch over the past 2 weeks or so, which I recognize is a big depression symptom for me. But I made and ate my normal oatmeal-y breakfast today and had a big salad and then a tuna salad sandwich for lunch.

To sum up: eat the food! Join me!


sj - Oct 17, 2016 11:28:39 am PDT #26881 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I am in clean and somewhat presentable sloungewear for when peapod shows up.

Thanks, Maria.

I've been eating but only what I can grab with minimal effort.


SailAweigh - Oct 17, 2016 11:32:01 am PDT #26882 of 30002
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

Leg~ma for Daniel, Andi.

sj, I hope you get your equilibrium back, soon. Those kind of FB interactions always leave me shaking afterwards. Ugh.


Sparky1 - Oct 17, 2016 12:12:30 pm PDT #26883 of 30002
Librarian Warlord

Leg ~ma for Daniel.

I am in clean and somewhat presentable sloungewear
You win.