Xander: Look who's got a bad case of Dark Prince envy. Dracula: Leave us. Xander: No, we're not going to "Leabbb you." And where'd you get that accent, Sesame Street? "One, Two, Three - three victims! Maw ha ha!"

'Lessons'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Steph L. - Oct 03, 2016 5:16:53 pm PDT #26654 of 30002
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Does it make him loopy or just more at ease?

Obviously cats and dogs are different, but Kato has Tramadol for pain, and if we give him 1 whole tablet, he's kind of stoned and just lays on his his bed and stares at his paws, but if we give him 1/2 a tablet, he's still alert and is just able to move around more comfortably.

I would think it would be the same with a kitty -- how she's affected would depend on the dose -- but I'm not sure. Plus it can be a tricky thing to find a dose that's strong enough to make them comfortable while being low enough to let them remain alert.


SuziQ - Oct 04, 2016 5:21:37 am PDT #26655 of 30002
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Thank you, Buffistas. She is such a sweet Kitty and I want to do what I can for her.


smonster - Oct 04, 2016 8:42:43 am PDT #26656 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Hope you can find something that helps Miss Kitty, Suzi.

I am so overwhelmed right now. The chaos of moving and adjusting to a new roommate is one thing. Not sure how well our personalities and needs are going to mesh.

But the bigger thing right now is work. This is my second week of being alone on the job - my sole coworker left for a job somewhere else. So I'm on a job site full of dudes by myself; about half are Honduran with English fluency from none to decent; the other half are blue collar dudes who grew up here. The guys are nice and treat me with some deference, which has both good and bad. But I still feel isolated.

And my boss, when he's here, which is rare, makes me tell him what my plan is and then picks it apart. This is, like, my least favorite way to learn and get feedback. It feels like one trick question after another. And I know this is my issue, that I hate being wrong and feeling stupid, but even if it will be good for me to change that attitude it's going to take a while and in the meantime I'm frustrated and angry all the time. Which is visible on my face, because that's how I am.

Right now I just feel like I will never be good at this and should change fields entirely. Again. And maybe I'm just never going to be a good employee. It's not them, it's me.

Okay, hopefully venting helped. I probably need to talk to him at some point but when I get upset he just wants to fix things but doesn't always ask me HOW I want his help. And even if he did ask I don't know what I would say. A traditional apprenticeship-type thing is not in the cards.

God it's hard not to take things personally.


Laura - Oct 04, 2016 8:53:06 am PDT #26657 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

I am super defensive and hate being or feeling wrong, smonster. I don't know what your communication structure is with your boss, but that is probably the best place to start. Maybe expressing your desire to improve your skill level and frustration in finding the best way to make that happen. As in having a troubleshooting the process of learning rather than the actual skills.


erikaj - Oct 04, 2016 9:29:10 am PDT #26658 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!

I almost sent my supervisor "Finishing up right now, AIFG!" Because when I write "right now," I always want to write that... he seems tense today, probably good not to get into it now, though I think he'd find it funny at some point.


Fred Pete - Oct 04, 2016 9:29:13 am PDT #26659 of 30002
Ann, that's a ferret.

Good luck with Miss Kitty, Suzi. When it comes to feline pain, we swear by buprenex. Squirt a little into the cheek pouch, and the difference is fast and noticeable.


SuziQ - Oct 04, 2016 9:34:04 am PDT #26660 of 30002
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

I will make a note of that Fred Pete. She might allow a quick squirt. We will start with the Glucosamine and go from there.


Scrappy - Oct 04, 2016 10:05:02 am PDT #26661 of 30002
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Our Old Man Poodle thinks Glucosamine is the most delicious treat devised by man. He starts licking his lips each morning as we get it out for him.


sj - Oct 04, 2016 10:44:38 am PDT #26662 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I just looked over and ltc was blowing kisses at her own reflection in the little mirror in her play yard. She kills me with her adorableness!


SuziQ - Oct 04, 2016 10:54:02 am PDT #26663 of 30002
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

How adorable!!! ltc, so much sweetness in a little package.