Hil, I have seen that a lot. People just don't think it through. Yeah, part of my problem is that I'm also not sure how upset I'm gonna be if I'm right. Looks like Grandma wants her funeral in the Midwest so I'm most likely going to be spared/ missing out on that bit, too. Relieved and also sad about that...
River: You gave up everything you had. Simon: [Chinese] Everything I have is right here.
'Safe'
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erikaj - Sep 01, 2016 1:08:06 pm PDT #26151 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!
billytea - Sep 01, 2016 1:33:40 pm PDT #26152 of 30002
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.
Shoot, Steph, finding someone who actually takes your insurance is a major step!
Y'know, there are times when I miss living in the States, and then there are times like this.
askye - Sep 01, 2016 1:35:46 pm PDT #26153 of 30002
Thrive to spite them
Baby steps are about the only way. And yeah I found my therapis through Psychology Today. I found it was a decent way to sort through people by the type of therapy they do and by what they specialize in (since I was looking for someone who works with trauma).
Zen it sucks you have to go through this.
The health care system is so broken and I hate it.
And that stupid people put steps in front of a ramp I mean really.
I need to finish a job application and I will try tonight.
Steph L. - Sep 01, 2016 1:49:20 pm PDT #26154 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
Walk taken and email sent to therapist!
Shoot, Steph, finding someone who actually takes your insurance is a major step!
Well, according to Humana, she's in our plan. I'll have to double-check with her. Assuming she's accepting new clients.
If people would cross their fingers for me, or otherwise send accepting-new-patients-ma, I'd appreciate it. I need to sort my brain weasels out.
Nora Deirdre - Sep 01, 2016 2:01:23 pm PDT #26155 of 30002
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)
Steph L. - Sep 01, 2016 2:50:21 pm PDT #26156 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
Okay, I have an appointment with a therapist in 2 weeks! At 8 a.m., holy Jesus. (Look, working from home has shifted my hours. I am not a morning person. But I'll be one -- or at least be awake -- if I can get my brain weasels wrangled.)
Tom Scola - Sep 01, 2016 2:57:32 pm PDT #26157 of 30002
Remember that the frontier of the Rebellion is everywhere. And even the smallest act of insurrection pushes our lines forward.
Woo! (I have several sessions a week; one of them is at 7:45 am)
Steph L. - Sep 01, 2016 3:00:16 pm PDT #26158 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
That's criminal. (I am violently opposed to mornings.)
askye - Sep 01, 2016 3:09:33 pm PDT #26159 of 30002
Thrive to spite them
It's a first appointment so you might be able to get a better time. Mines at 9 but I have to leave around 8 to get there. AND the Sat the group therapy is a more reasonable 10:30.
I hope you like this therapist.
Steph L. - Sep 01, 2016 3:13:27 pm PDT #26160 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
It's a first appointment so you might be able to get a better time.
The good thing is that it doesn't interrupt my work day. (I'm trying to be positive.) And yeah, it's in Northern Kentucky, which isn't far from us (no more than 20 minutes) except I have NO idea what traffic on the highway is like that early in the morning. Probably heavy.