Well, it's just good to know that when the chips are down and things look grim you'll feed off the girl who loves you to save your own ass!

Xander ,'Chosen'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Nora Deirdre - Jul 01, 2016 6:55:40 am PDT #25298 of 30002
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Ugh, I just privately called a restaurant (part of a larger restaurant group here) out on something blatantly racist in an email and now I have post-confrontation stomach twisting.

I know what I'm doing is right but my fear of making someone mad at me is making me feel like it was wrong.

You can check out the hashtag #closedforessence for an idea of what the situation is.


lisah - Jul 01, 2016 7:23:25 am PDT #25299 of 30002
Punishingly Intricate

I know that feeling, Nora, but if ignorant assholes are mad at you, you've done something right.


Nora Deirdre - Jul 01, 2016 7:41:07 am PDT #25300 of 30002
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

yes, exactly! Thank you.


Zenkitty - Jul 01, 2016 7:45:27 am PDT #25301 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

You know a person by their enemies, Nora!


sj - Jul 01, 2016 8:05:22 am PDT #25302 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Nora, what Lisa and Zen said.

Headed to Mom's for a few days. My goals are to sleep, take lots of long baths, and catch up on my magazine reading. If I get really ambitious, I brought a book too.


Laura - Jul 01, 2016 9:51:35 am PDT #25303 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

What they said, Nora. I share the discomfort, but some things you just can't let go.

Ah sj, that sounds wonderful. Enjoy the rest and renewal.


sj - Jul 01, 2016 10:18:49 am PDT #25304 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I am here! A little later than planned because I was in too much pain this morning and needed a nap.

ltc has been fed and the grandparents are in charge.


sj - Jul 01, 2016 2:56:12 pm PDT #25305 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

So far vacation has not been as relaxing as hoped. ltc wouldn't take her afternoon nap and now she won't go to bed. She doesn't like the pack and play. If we can't get her to sleep TCG isn't going to want us to come back.


Laura - Jul 01, 2016 3:59:25 pm PDT #25306 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

Aww, the change can be upsetting to her schedule, but she'll relax. I hope sound sleep comes soon.


sj - Jul 01, 2016 4:05:59 pm PDT #25307 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

We're all still up.