I walk. I talk. I shop, I sneeze. I'm gonna be a fireman when the floods roll back. There's trees in the desert since you moved out. And I don't sleep on a bed of bones.

Buffy ,'Chosen'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


smonster - May 02, 2016 8:45:18 am PDT #24490 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Zen, I just posted a fascinating, validating, and kind of depressing article about losing weight on fb. Laura, I wonder if you are eating just enough to dull the hunger signals. I eat every three hours or so, but I eat regular meals in addition to the snacks. Maybe I need to downsize my meals. Interesting thought.

~ma, Epic. Thinking of you.

Going well so far! B was being a bit of a mother hen, but I anticipated that and he's self-aware about it. No P sightings yet.

sj, seems like clarifying expectations can only help. You should absolutely not be the only one paying attention to her needs and schedule.


smonster - May 02, 2016 8:45:57 am PDT #24491 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Oh! And ~ma for you and your family, too, Laura.


meara - May 02, 2016 9:08:54 am PDT #24492 of 30002

Laura, that's very similar to the diet I used last year (...haven't stuck to it very well/at all, so havent' lost any more weight, but haven't really gained it back either--though the slothfulness of broken foot may not help things, nor my recent torrid affair with ice cream). Lowish carb, high protein/fiber, eat every 2-3 hours around 100 calories, plus one meal of protein and veg.


Dana - May 02, 2016 9:09:47 am PDT #24493 of 30002
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

Zen, I just posted a fascinating, validating, and kind of depressing article about losing weight on fb.

Yes, it was all of those things. I keep vacillating. I should eat better. (Well, of course I should, but specifically to lose weight.) I should exercise more. No, it's more realistic that I'll eat better. No, I should just exercise. But I hear food has more effect on weight. But exercise is good for me in many ways. But but but.

And then I have a snack.


Laura - May 02, 2016 9:14:30 am PDT #24494 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

Very excited and happy to see you in the new job, smonster. The work conditions and stress is another factor with sleep and diet that makes a world of difference in our physical and mental health.

The weight loss is like a bonus, mostly I am grateful for the energy burst that I really needed. Probably a sugar regulation thing. Getting more exercise, because energy! Except last 3 days in the hospital, but even here I am the runner for food and drinks and stuff for the other family members.

Looking forward to seeing the pictures, Burrell. Love kid plays.


Steph L. - May 02, 2016 9:25:25 am PDT #24495 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

mostly I am grateful for the energy burst that I really needed. Probably a sugar regulation thing.

My energy sucks, and I *know* I eat too much sugar. Maybe I can tweak that with smaller, more frequent bits of food. I'll have to experiment with that.


Steph L. - May 02, 2016 9:30:43 am PDT #24496 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

(I should note that, at the same time that I'm posting about how I eat too much sugar, I have a tab open in my browser for "Easy Cinnamon Roll Cake." I AM WHAT'S WRONG WITH AMERICA.)


Dana - May 02, 2016 10:41:47 am PDT #24497 of 30002
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

Aaaand now Aetna is bumping my Wellbutrin up a tier on the stupid formulary. I already get the generic, but unless I get the generic immediate release, I'm going to have to pay more.

Maybe the immediate release will work fine for me. Who knows? I'll either have to take a chance with my mental health or just cough up the extra cash.

Edit: Don't know for sure, but it looks like my cost will go up from $40/3 months to $100/3 months.


Burrell - May 02, 2016 1:14:31 pm PDT #24498 of 30002
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

That's f'ed up, Dana


Laura - May 02, 2016 2:03:32 pm PDT #24499 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

Insurance companies are more evil than the banks, and that is some advanced level of evil. Banks screw with our money while insurance companies screw with our health. EVIL

I AM WHAT'S WRONG WITH AMERICA.

Ha! Right there with ya.