Hey, preaching to the choir. I thought our Lady of the Perpetual Sea Breeze was the real deal until the Divine Miss J walked right through that door and right into my ass—which is where my heart is…physiologically. I could show you an x-ray.

Lorne ,'Time Bomb'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Hil R. - Apr 07, 2016 12:49:55 pm PDT #24084 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I got my painkillers refilled, so I have those ready for the weekend, when I know I'm going to need them. The class that I'm covering tomorrow morning is only about 10 students, so that shouldn't be too difficult. (I've got two classes of 65 students each right now, and I am not great at managing that many.) Then spend most of the day grading geometry midterms from today, then give the calculus midterm, then grade that.

I bought nachos stuff, because I know I'm going to want some kind of junk food by the time I'm finished with that grading.


brenda m - Apr 07, 2016 2:00:21 pm PDT #24085 of 30002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

does that calculus grading have to be done right after? It couldn't wait the weekend?


Hil R. - Apr 07, 2016 2:05:08 pm PDT #24086 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

It's group grading -- there are about ten of us who give our students the same exam, and to ensure it's graded fairly, each of us is assigned a particular problem to grade, and we grade that problem for all the students. The logistics of it work out best if everyone's in the same room at the same time, and the general consensus is that we should get it over with and grade right after the exam.


brenda m - Apr 07, 2016 2:24:19 pm PDT #24087 of 30002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Oh, I thought it was just you and the one other guy. Yeah, that would be trickier to move.


sj - Apr 08, 2016 7:29:51 am PDT #24088 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Hil, good luck today.

I have concert tickets for the end of August which means that somehow between now and then I have to get ltc to start on a bottle so I can leave her with my mother for s few hours.


Laura - Apr 08, 2016 7:32:58 am PDT #24089 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

Feeling sad and out of sort today. One of my older friends passed unexpectedly this morning. We still don't know what happened. She was 72 going on 22. I believe everyone thought she would live well over 100 years. (Tom, this was Pat that gave us the tour of her ranch)

Pat was so full of life each and every day. She grew or raised or traded for everything her family ate. I'd bring her citrus or the mango chutney I'd canned to fill in where she couldn't do it herself. Avid hunter and big ole Republican. She would happily discuss politics with me and never considered taking it personally. At the frequent Otter Lake get togethers she would be my dance partner when her grandkids didn't get her out there first. She shoveled roofs and moved lawns and I just couldn't imagine her stopping. She had joint issues from Lyme disease that slowed her a bit on the dance floor and chores, but I didn't think she had any serious health issues.

One more lovely story of Pat while I reminisce. Pat had a number of animals, emus, hogs, chickens, deer and such. Through the years she hosted buses of disabled children and adults for farm tours. When her granddaughter was born a couple years ago with Down Syndrome she expressed her gratitude that she had known so many children and adults with the syndrome because it gave her more experience to be loving guidance for the grandchild.

We could not have been more different and we certainly had completely different life experiences, but we loved each other. It is a much larger hole for her family and the community, but I have a hole in my heart. RIP Pat. You made the world a better place.


sj - Apr 08, 2016 7:35:55 am PDT #24090 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I'm sorry, Laura. She sounds like quite a person to have known.


Dana - Apr 08, 2016 7:50:35 am PDT #24091 of 30002
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

I'm sorry, Laura.


Laura - Apr 08, 2016 7:52:00 am PDT #24092 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

Is is a reminder to me that I tend to go out of my way to surround myself with "just like me" big city far left thinking people. Then today thinking of Pat I know we had almost nothing in common. We loved our families, and we loved to dance together, and we loved to talk about every subject without it mattering if we agreed or not. It just breaks my heart that I won't have a drink next to a bonfire or dance with her again. It probably wasn't a week ago that we talked about seeing each other soon. At least I am confident that she lived her last days with all the energy of the previous decades.


Beverly - Apr 08, 2016 8:21:35 am PDT #24093 of 30002
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

She sounds like a wonderful person to know, Laura. As are you. The pair of you together must have been formidable. I'm so sorry you've lost her.