Do you have a favorite freakout song? Like "I'm Not Okay"? Sometimes if I put that on I can get those emotions out or use them to fuel productivity.
Glory: Lesson number one, Vampires equal impure! Spike: Damn right I'm impure, I'm as impure as the driven yellow snow!
'Dirty Girls'
Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
smonster - Dec 27, 2015 10:08:38 am PST #22857 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
Zenkitty - Dec 27, 2015 10:13:09 am PST #22858 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.
Um, apparently I handle freakouts by taking scissors to my hair.
Connie Neil - Dec 27, 2015 10:34:25 am PST #22859 of 30002
brillig
Is it at least even?
Laura - Dec 27, 2015 10:37:08 am PST #22860 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.
You don't have time to take scissors to your hair, woman!
sends coffee liqueur shots via intertubes
Zenkitty - Dec 27, 2015 10:49:57 am PST #22861 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.
Is it at least even?
Mm. No. At least it's curly. Curls cover a lot of rash decisions.
Maybe if I do bangs. From the back of my head.
Connie Neil - Dec 27, 2015 10:53:22 am PST #22862 of 30002
brillig
Curls cover a lot of rash decisions.
I know this well. Whenever my hair annoys me, I find the offending bit and lop it off, trusting the curl to hide things. No wonder my older sister envied my hair when we were kids.
askye - Dec 27, 2015 12:14:21 pm PST #22863 of 30002
Thrive to spite them
So I got the denial paperwork for Hartford. It boils down to nothing in the paperwork the meds manager sent them after October had information that supported my claim I was unable to work. I don't know what it actually says. I have 180 days to appeal this. After I deal with a few other things I'm going to go contact her for copies of documentation and appeal. Mostly because I'm entitled to an appeal.
I need to cut my hair. Mom took me to get my hair cut here from a lady who specializes in short hair and the cut was good but it wasn't quite right. She left it too long and didn't thin it out enough so I only had 2 weeks of being able to reasonably use product in it. And she was kind of expensive so I guess I'm going back to taking my chances at some place cheaper. Either that or think about growing it out so I can just pull it up in a pony tail and not think about it.
WindSparrow - Dec 27, 2015 6:44:57 pm PST #22864 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.
askye, since you are planning to appeal the decision, maybe try requesting the name and qualifications of Hartford's people who made your decision. I saw a thing that suggested that for any medical procedure that is denied. This may not work, but the idea is, if they've some one making those decisions with no medical education, Hartford might give you the appeal rather than admit that.
askye - Dec 28, 2015 5:19:06 am PST #22865 of 30002
Thrive to spite them
That's a good idea Andi I'll put that in with my request. Their names should be on the paperwork but I would like to know their qualifications.
I'm also wondering if I was trying to be too optimistic when I talked to Hartford and if my meds manager was painting a better picture or something. I'm trying not to dwell or worry until I actual see something in writing.
sj - Dec 28, 2015 5:47:46 am PST #22866 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Best of luck, askye. I'm sorry you have to deal with such b.s.