My heart expands / 'tis grown a bulge in't / inspired by / your beauty effulgent.

William ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


javachik - Oct 08, 2015 9:02:32 pm PDT #22022 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

Hi guys has anyone heard from Strix today?


smonster - Oct 08, 2015 11:56:12 pm PDT #22023 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Strix, thank you for the apology. I'm sure it wasn't easy reading all of that and I'm glad you can take it in the spirit intended. Please keep us posted.

And thanks to everyone for supporting all of us. Not that I'm around much in general, but I'm pretty gray rright now because I'm moving this weekend.

askye! Do the thing! And remember, other people's opinions of you are none of your business.

sj, I cannot WAIT to see ltc in her costume.

I am awake at four am and I'm not happy about it. Here's hoping I can get back to sleep.


sj - Oct 09, 2015 12:01:53 am PDT #22024 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Hi, smonster. I'm awake too, but I can't complain because this is the first time ltc has woken up to eat since we went to sleep.


sj - Oct 09, 2015 6:17:22 am PDT #22025 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

ltc was doing tummy time and she flipped over from her tummy to her back twice. I'm so glad TCG was home today to see it.


Laura - Oct 09, 2015 6:27:19 am PDT #22026 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

So nice to read about the happy baby times. Looking forward to seeing ltc, and the other Buffista sprog, in their Halloween costumes.

eta: and the adult Buffistas in their costumes as well!


askye - Oct 09, 2015 6:30:50 am PDT #22027 of 30002
Thrive to spite them

At this point the most I can do is at least pick up the bottle caps Penny plays with and that are strewn all over the place, sweep, and sdo some dishes.

I dont think I feel asleep until 4 am. I have so much to do and I was going to try to set up an online gaming sesion iwth some people from Second Life this afternoon but don't think that's going to work out.

Currently I've got 7 reusable grocery bags of books and dvds to take to goodwill (mostly books). I pretty much used the criteria - does this mean something to mean and will it be hard to get from the library - on what to keep. And I may be more ruthless.

I made the fuel oil delivery appointment. Need to make a call to the vet. I think I bought the wrong food for Penny. I get Blue Buffalo but there are 2 kinds in almost the same color bag....one is good for her the other...not so good.

Also on the good news, I got 6 hours of sleep (I think) but I'veonly been awake for 1 1/2.


askye - Oct 09, 2015 6:31:26 am PDT #22028 of 30002
Thrive to spite them

go ltc!! She's an adorable little champ! I love looking at pictures of her on FB - she's so expressive.


beekaytee - Oct 09, 2015 6:56:49 am PDT #22029 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

I'm honored to be part of a community that handles its stuff with such humanity and clarity.

I'm not going to dive into a discussion already expressed beautifully but I wanted to 'like' this:

I often find wisdom and insight in the most unexpected places. So now I expect it.

I loved hearing Laura's story about her Christian clients. This has been my experience as a non-Chrisitan working in a lot of Christian environments.

When I was at Loyola, in a pastoral counseling program, I received so many gifts of wisdom from people I would otherwise never know/entertain.

At some point, I actually convinced myself that the following sentence I say to myself all the time was actually scripture...it is not. No idea where I got it.

"Suffer gently the fool, for he has the ear of God."

By God, I mean all/anything potentially outside what we think we know.

Mostly, it just reminds me that there is a lot of stuff that I am happy to know when I have the chance to know it, regardless of how I come to know it!


WindSparrow - Oct 09, 2015 9:38:53 am PDT #22030 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

It's good to see your pixels, bonny!

Strix, I hope that you are taking care of yourself and making progress on getting the help you need. It would be good to hear from you, if you can.


beekaytee - Oct 09, 2015 10:23:09 am PDT #22031 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

Hey Andi! Big hug to you.