Angel: Just admit it: you think you're gonna ride in, save the day, and sweep Buffy off her--Spike: Like you're not thinking the same thing. Angel: I'm already seeing somebody. Spike: What, dog girl?

'The Girl in Question'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Steph L. - Sep 23, 2015 2:38:25 pm PDT #21749 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

He also was kind of upset that his doctor had not warned him of the possibility of addiction.

I took the maximum dose of percocet pretty much every day for 6 weeks before my back surgery. Since I had zero pain when I woke up in recovery, I stopped taking the percocet cold turkey. No one mentioned this might be a bad idea. My withdrawal was SO BAD. And I didn't even know it was withdrawal, because no one mentioned that could happen. I called my primary-care doctor's answering service on the weekend, and he took his own call back then, so he called me and when I explained it, he said "You're having withdrawal." I was dumbfounded. He told me to take half a percocet and take a nap when the sweats and shakes subsided, and to keep taking half a tablet every X hours, and call him Monday for a plan to taper off of it. (Even when I tapered off it, it was hard to do.)

At my follow-up appointment with the surgeon, I told him about it, and mentioned maybe he should tell patients they shouldn't go cold turkey off narcotics, and he pooh-poohed it, saying no one could get addicted in 6 weeks. (That is my only quibble with him, because he is otherwise the golden god who fixed my back and made me able to walk, pain-free, again.)

How can a doctor -- whose patients surely are taking narcotics -- not know about physical dependence???


erikaj - Sep 23, 2015 2:50:07 pm PDT #21750 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!

I don't know, Tep. I'm often amazed that they don't know that you can be a grown-up with CP(or in some sad cases, what CP is)


Connie Neil - Sep 23, 2015 3:24:10 pm PDT #21751 of 30002
brillig

In Hubby's circumstance, I think it was accepted that he was going to be on that level of drugs for the rest of his life, so withdrawal was not going to be an issue. I knew new doctors would look at his drug list and go "Oh, there has to be a way to get you off some of those drugs, it's not good for you," and he'd point to the certified pain doctor who had prescribed most of them. Though it did take the pharmacist to say "You've got half a dozen interactions going on here, tell your doctor to take a look at these drugs and see which ones are really necessary." Turned out he was taking drugs just to deal with the effects of the interactions between another set of drugs.

(Though all his drugs has certainly contributed to my apparently reaching a lifetime cap on prescription co-pays, because I haven't had to pay for any of my drugs for over a year. God bless good insurance, how the uninsured cope with these things I don't know.)


quester - Sep 23, 2015 4:32:28 pm PDT #21752 of 30002
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.

God bless good insurance, how the uninsured cope with these things I don't know.)

or deal with bad insurance. In a word - badly.

and Connie, you keep anything you damn well want to for as long as it makes you happy.

Thank you all for the sympathy. I did manage to sleep after taking extra med so was a little groggy today. But, I was less panicked today.

Then, I came home to find that a Buffista had generously helped me out and am verklempt that this is the kind of place where we really take care of each other.

The sweet, kind and generous Nanita is my benefactress and is a goddess to me.


javachik - Sep 23, 2015 4:53:49 pm PDT #21753 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

Eh, I had some extra needed putting to good use. Hope it helps.


quester - Sep 23, 2015 5:03:09 pm PDT #21754 of 30002
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.

Eh, I had some extra needed putting to good use. Hope it helps.

More than you know!


JZ - Sep 23, 2015 5:05:43 pm PDT #21755 of 30002
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Nanita is indeed rather goddesslike that way. A lot of us owe her, with a lot of love.


amyth - Sep 23, 2015 5:14:01 pm PDT #21756 of 30002
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen

quester, glad things are a little better.

askye, I meant to say! Looking forward to having you as an NC-ista. We will be about four hours apart, but hopefully there can be togethering at some point.


Connie Neil - Sep 23, 2015 6:20:52 pm PDT #21757 of 30002
brillig

Then, I came home to find that a Buffista had generously helped me out and am verklempt that this is the kind of place where we really take care of each other.

I love us.


Liese S. - Sep 23, 2015 7:43:14 pm PDT #21758 of 30002
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

Nanita is the best.