Sweet lumpy minion, you're the only one that understands. Probably 'cause I haven't sucked the brain out of you yet.

Glory ,'Potential'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Steph L. - Sep 17, 2015 4:21:04 pm PDT #21643 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

For me, the difference between "disabled person" and person with a disability is actually pretty negligible, at least compared to describing me as "suffering with CP"

In editing medical articles, we always say "patient with [whatever]" instead of "[whatever] patient." Although we used to be able to say "obese patient" until it got declared an illness, so now it has to be "patient with obesity." ("Junk in the trunk" is also not acceptable.)

And we are NEVER allowed to use "suffering" or "victim" even in editorials, even when discussing victims of crime...excuse me, individuals who experienced crime.


Zenkitty - Sep 17, 2015 4:59:32 pm PDT #21644 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Although we used to be able to say "obese patient" until it got declared an illness, so now it has to be "patient with obesity."

When did it get declared an illness? I was unaware of that. It's a good thing, maybe doctors will start taking us seriously instead of blaming all of fat patients' problems on them being fat. Can I make jokes about calling in fat? Sorry, can't work today, I'm obese. No, I'll probably be obese tomorrow too. Maybe Friday.


Steph L. - Sep 17, 2015 5:39:29 pm PDT #21645 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Although we used to be able to say "obese patient" until it got declared an illness, so now it has to be "patient with obesity."

When did it get declared an illness?

In 2013. ("I can't come in to work; I caught a case of the fat!")


Trudy Booth - Sep 17, 2015 5:45:13 pm PDT #21646 of 30002
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

My relapsing and remitting fat should be remitting aaaaaany minute now.


Steph L. - Sep 17, 2015 5:58:50 pm PDT #21647 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I have treatment-resistant chub.


smonster - Sep 17, 2015 6:49:55 pm PDT #21648 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Laura, that is really sad. I'm so sorry.

Nothing to add to disability language discussion, but as always am I terested and happy to learn more. And you people are cracking me the fuck up, so thanks for that. I worked almost 50 hours in four days (including 3 hr daily commute) and I am fucking wiped.


askye - Sep 17, 2015 9:15:30 pm PDT #21649 of 30002
Thrive to spite them

I am awake. I should be asleep. I am not tired. I was tired around 10 pm. I just need to turn off the lights and lay down and stop watching stupid videos and stuff.


Sophia Brooks - Sep 18, 2015 2:47:54 am PDT #21650 of 30002
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

Is this when they started saying that the patient has overweight? Because that drives me crazy!


Zenkitty - Sep 18, 2015 6:04:02 am PDT #21651 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

the patient has overweight

Oh, I've never heard that. That would make me side-eye a doctor hard.


Steph L. - Sep 18, 2015 6:13:04 am PDT #21652 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

the patient has overweight

We don't phrase it that way in our articles. We still use "overweight" as an adjective, although we usually talk about it in terms of BMI (despite that being bullshit on the individual level).