Sometimes a thing gets broke, can't be fixed.

Kaylee ,'Out Of Gas'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Zenkitty - Sep 17, 2015 7:33:17 am PDT #21621 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

What lisah said. Not acceptable. If you aren't allowed to be late, he isn't either.


sj - Sep 17, 2015 7:58:09 am PDT #21622 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

You're right. I'll say something. I found a dress at Talbots to wear to the baby shower. It's a red cotton shirt dress, which buttons down the front so it should work for feeding ltc. Best part was it was on sale for $40. I grabbed another dress too that won't work for breastfeeding but it fit perfect and for $20, I couldn't resist it.


lisah - Sep 17, 2015 9:00:37 am PDT #21623 of 30002
Punishingly Intricate

Strong shopping, sj!


sj - Sep 17, 2015 9:03:26 am PDT #21624 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I found links for one of them:

red dress


brenda m - Sep 17, 2015 10:02:39 am PDT #21625 of 30002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Oh that's really pretty.


Laura - Sep 17, 2015 10:35:54 am PDT #21626 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

Nice! I love the color.


Volans - Sep 17, 2015 10:38:53 am PDT #21627 of 30002
move out and draw fire

Cute dress!

I live near a really big Talbot's outlet (a real outlet store) so I have a closet full of "That's cute and only $7," but nothing that fits particularly well. Talbot's does not expect my body type, I guess.


sj - Sep 17, 2015 1:44:05 pm PDT #21628 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Thanks, everyone!

I live near a really big Talbot's outlet (a real outlet store) so I have a closet full of "That's cute and only $7," but nothing that fits particularly well. Talbot's does not expect my body type, I guess.

I never get to the outlet anymore because the closest one is about an hour away, but there is a regular store right down the street from me. And I'm small enough to fit in their clothes again! Both dresses fit very well. So, I got lucky.


erikaj - Sep 17, 2015 1:55:16 pm PDT #21629 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!

People-first language, but mostly what we should call ourselves. Which was once tres important to me, but now feels like the board going around and around about cilantro. I know that there's a generational divide between folks like me who think it's funny/ reclaiming to use gimp and cripple when it's, like, "just us" and not really for mixed consumption(ie "nigga" and queer" and people that hate that stuff and feel scarred it exists and might say stuff like "actually, I like to think I'm a human being first..."(Sort of the "All lives matter" response) I guess we'll know if we arrive as minority if Quentin Tarantino writes a character called "Cripple McShortlegs" and doesn't understand when people hate it. Maybe he will actually cast an impaired person(or we can have Disability conversation #2 about actors in "gimpface" but maybe he'll make Cripple McShortlegs with Peter Dinklage(it will still get protested anyway)


erikaj - Sep 17, 2015 2:14:04 pm PDT #21630 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!

Just talked to my dad about plans for my birthday and it was so weird and awkward. I mean, I understand intellectually that having a daughter about to be 42(and sadly feeling pretty far from the Answer To Everything) might make him feel old, but by current standards both my parents could have been on "Teen Mom '73" practically. So we chatted and I'm thinking "Kerry probably has hostage negotiations warmer than this." And it was kind of a close shave(people are always surprised on those rare occasions that I do say "I almost died," that I can say it non-emotionally, but I don't feel that like my mom does...people I trust have told me that, there is clearly lasting damage, and, yes, when I was a snotty fourteen year-old I used it to win an argument or two, but it doesn't mean what people might think.) However, I do think it means I ought to be spared my dad's "Dust in The Wind" thing. @@ Also, he should know both our birthdates, but that's all tl:dr