I could squeeze you until you popped like warm champagne, and you'd beg me to hurt you just a little bit more.

Fuffy ,'Storyteller'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


askye - Sep 11, 2015 11:14:39 am PDT #21530 of 30002
Thrive to spite them

Oh, I wasn't htinking in terms of someone reading the paper or magazine to G'ma. I know that well before she went into the nursing home she wasn't able to read but would still sit and drink her coffee and "read" the paper. Usually over and over, she'd loop a bit but also forget that she'd "read" it. It was more the routine having the something she'd done all of her adult life continue.


sj - Sep 11, 2015 11:31:20 am PDT #21531 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Tons of ~ma for all those dealing with aging parents.

Mom and stepdad actually have insurance that covers nursing homes and assisted living places and are fine with those options, especially if they start to get dementia.


Liese S. - Sep 11, 2015 11:38:39 am PDT #21532 of 30002
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

Hahaha Brenda, you can see your priorities. Packers were super fast and efficient today, so hopefully that bodes well for Sunday.

They were done before I even got out of the optometrist. Speaking of which, I need hive mind input for new glasses. [link]

One set is titanium like what I have now, so lighter and more durable but more than double the price. But it comes with a magnetic sunglasses clip on. It would be in gunmetal, unlike the photo. The other set is a much greater digression from what I have now, and is cheaper but heavier.

I haven't changed these since 2011 when my vision stopped changing so rapidly. I used to have new styles every year! Now I can't make as trendy choices because they need to last, hopefully, but I don't want to get stuck in that thing where you can identify my decade of choice by my eyewear for the rest of my life.

So I dunno! I think the SO prefers the titaniums.


brenda m - Sep 11, 2015 11:41:05 am PDT #21533 of 30002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Lighter and more durable, for something you wear all the time, is totally worth it.


Sue - Sep 11, 2015 11:45:03 am PDT #21534 of 30002
hip deep in pie

I really like the semi-cateye shape of one set of frames, but I think the other shape looks better on you. And more durable and lighter is worth the extra money.


Zenkitty - Sep 11, 2015 12:01:33 pm PDT #21535 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Lighter is better. IME you'll regret heavier glasses.


Liese S. - Sep 11, 2015 12:02:29 pm PDT #21536 of 30002
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

Yeah, sue, I suspect I like the idea of the pseudo cat-eye in concept. I was thinking it might counteract the Asian shape of my eye, but I think maybe it accentuates it instead? I like the other one fine too, I was just thinking I'd make a bigger change, but maybe I don't need to? I know the picture is less focused so it is a little hard to tell, perhaps.


Burrell - Sep 11, 2015 12:27:54 pm PDT #21537 of 30002
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

I prefer the ones with the clip, they framed your face better.


Toddson - Sep 11, 2015 12:29:24 pm PDT #21538 of 30002
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

For ltc and any other Buffista babies, Princess Awesome.


sj - Sep 11, 2015 12:40:18 pm PDT #21539 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

For ltc and any other Buffista babies, Princess Awesome.

Nice! I love the pirate pattern!