I'll be in my bunk.

Jayne ,'War Stories'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


DavidS - Jul 04, 2015 6:51:29 pm PDT #20364 of 30002
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

That's great, Nora! I'm so glad you guys had a successful outing and with cool people you like too.


meara - Jul 04, 2015 10:37:34 pm PDT #20365 of 30002

That's awesome Nora! I went to a party where I knew no one but the host, and had a pretty decent time. Except my crush on the host got lots worse, and I don't think she's into me. Sigh.


Calli - Jul 05, 2015 3:30:12 am PDT #20366 of 30002
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I found out this morning that an aunt is going into hospice next week. She has an inoperable brain tumor, and while they were able to shrink it a bit, it's at the palliative treatment stage. My aunt's in her 90s, I believe, and she's had a heck of a life. Married my WWII fighter pilot uncle, then lived in interesting places until settling down to raise a family in a Michigan lake house. There's a picture of her in her 20s, with her hair in victory rolls wearing my uncle's leather flight jacket that's just so glamorous and badass. It looks like they'll be able to make her passing relatively peaceful and painless, but I'm sad to see her go.


WindSparrow - Jul 05, 2015 4:21:25 am PDT #20367 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Oh Calli, I'm sorry for the whole world that this woman's light is going out.


Burrell - Jul 05, 2015 6:40:31 am PDT #20368 of 30002
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

I'm sorry, Calli. I hope her passing is peaceful.


Zenkitty - Jul 05, 2015 7:17:33 am PDT #20369 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Glad you and Tom went out and had fun, Nora!

Sorry about your aunt, Calli. She sounds like an amazing person.

I found an interesting plant in my yard and saved it from the mower by transplanting it into a pot. It lived, to my surprise, so hopefully soon I'll see what it is. Hopefully, not a Triffid. The butterfly milkweed is also growing well in its pot, which I didn't expect, but it hasn't flowered yet. I'm not really a good gardener; I'm always surprised when my plants live. Oh, and the snapdragons survived the winter and are blooming again, another surprise. Mainly what my pot garden has this year is wild clover, but I like clover and it requires nothing from me, so it's a good relationship.


Beverly - Jul 05, 2015 8:16:01 am PDT #20370 of 30002
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

I was just out watering (rainbarrel, FTW!) this morning, and everything is blooming like gangbusters. The lillies in the half-barrels along the side are almost over, which is sad. The lillies in the front pots were spectacular, but short-lived. But now, all the herbs are blooming like their lives depend on it. There won't be an herb harvest this year--I didn't have the heart to cut the plants before they bloomed and deprive the bees, who are going nuts with the herb blossoms. For the first year *ever*, the Russian sage overwintered and came back from the root. It's taken till now for the plant to grow to triffid proportions, and it's only blooming now. Ranks of small bumble bees are hovering in place, waiting. They love the Russian sage.

H gets all credit for watering, feeding, and deadheading, plus he gets to bask when the neighbors enthuse on their walks past the house.

I couldn't plant the purple morning glory vine I wanted on the Buddha trellis--it's banned in the county. We planted two purple-blooming vines instead. One's trying to grow to the moon and can't be bothered to flower, the other is bubbling over with beautiful purple flowers, but it's so tiny--it needs to climb so it can show off a little. Humans, man. We're never satisfied.


sj - Jul 05, 2015 12:57:17 pm PDT #20371 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I'm exhausted and trying to stay awake long enough for the on call doctor to call me back with test results. She's supposed to call back within 20 minutes and it's been well over an hour. Can't. Keep. Eyes. Open.


Calli - Jul 05, 2015 4:07:50 pm PDT #20372 of 30002
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Thanks, y'all. My aunt seems like one of the last of her generation. It's odd to think how few alive remember the war and their role in it.


sj - Jul 05, 2015 4:43:58 pm PDT #20373 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Calli, I'm sorry. I thought I said something earlier, but it looks like I didn't. Easy passing to your aunt.