Wesley: We were fighting on opposite sides, but it was the same war. Fred: but you hated her…didn't you? Wesley: It's not always about holding hands.

'Shells'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


sj - May 22, 2015 2:25:43 pm PDT #19405 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Iron~ma for sj!

Thanks, Laura! At least I have one more excuse to add to my list of why I'm exhausted, right?

ND, I'm so sorry about your mother, and I don't think it sounds cold in the least not to want to see her suffer.


Laura - May 22, 2015 2:32:52 pm PDT #19406 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

Quite a significant reason to be exhausted! I hope the treatments help quickly, sj.


Calli - May 22, 2015 2:39:50 pm PDT #19407 of 30002
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I'm sorry, ND. For what it's worth, I wish the end had come a bit more quickly for my mom, too. Once all the good-byes have been said and whatever peace might need to be made has been made, lingering in a bad place doesn't do anyone much good.


Burrell - May 22, 2015 2:56:50 pm PDT #19408 of 30002
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

I am so sorry, ND. There are many here, myself included, who've been through it and are here for you.


quester - May 22, 2015 5:56:02 pm PDT #19409 of 30002
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.

sj, low iron is no joke. I would up in the hospital because of it. so good for you for getting treated.

ND, I know exactly how you feel. And I knew my mother felt the same way. Once she was immobilized by the strokes she couldn't wait to check out. Sad part, her mind stayed pretty sharp until the end. My dad was the opposite. As soon as she died he deteriorated mentally and his body finally gave up a year later.


Connie Neil - May 22, 2015 7:05:21 pm PDT #19410 of 30002
brillig

I don't normally go out to dinner by myself. The Friday night of the first big holiday weekend of the year was not the best time to break that streak. Lots of couples of varying ages around. The table next to me had a couple about ten years old than me. It suddenly hit me, the decades ahead of me. There was a carnival in the parking lot across from the restaurant. He loved the lights and fireworks. And all the sympathy in the world, no matter how sincere, can stop it hurting.


askye - May 23, 2015 4:29:21 am PDT #19411 of 30002
Thrive to spite them

I need ma. Bad anxiety. Called crisis line they told me to go to er. I am not suicidal. but I am having s3lf harm thoughts.

Sorry to burden you guys . Needed to reach out


Anne W. - May 23, 2015 4:32:05 am PDT #19412 of 30002
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.

It's not a burden, askye. Thank you for letting us know what's going on. Much, much, ~ma to you.


sj - May 23, 2015 4:34:57 am PDT #19413 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

{{{askye}}} I'm sorry. If you go to the ER maybe they can give you stronger anti-anxiety meds? Can you get in touch with your therapist on the weekend?

sj, low iron is no joke. I would up in the hospital because of it. so good for you for getting treated.

I know. I've had to have iron infusions before, but I was doing fairly well up until this point with my pregnancy because of tmi not having my period. I've been exhausted the last couple of weeks, like on the couch unable to do anything after 3 in the afternoon, but I was blaming the pregnancy and allergies.


askye - May 23, 2015 4:46:02 am PDT #19414 of 30002
Thrive to spite them

The crisis line is what my therapist said to call. I contacted her. I'm waitng. I hate waiting.