This money, it is too much. You should have some small refund.

Niska ,'War Stories'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


brenda m - Jul 17, 2013 5:33:50 am PDT #1934 of 30002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

There is no way we'll be done by 5 p.m. tomorrow.

Then they'll have to wait.


WindSparrow - Jul 17, 2013 5:46:57 am PDT #1935 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

You did not create this clusterfuck. You calling in sick (mental health IS health) may allow some consequences to come back on those who did. Please do what is best for your health.

Incidentally, since it probably was not clear, I was not trying to say you have to call in sick because I know what is best for you. I was going for whatever you decide to do that will make you least miserable.


beth b - Jul 17, 2013 6:00:50 am PDT #1936 of 30002
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

I'd say call in sick too. because it won't be finished no matter what. It is not your job to be the only one .

But if you do go in, send out an email that says what the problems are and about how long it will take at the currrent level of problems. Make someone else own the problem, even if you can't make them own the job.


Scrappy - Jul 17, 2013 7:18:25 am PDT #1937 of 30002
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

What Beth said.


DavidS - Jul 17, 2013 7:50:44 am PDT #1938 of 30002
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Then they'll have to wait.

Yeah, they can pay you extra for a couple weeks of work if they want it all done. Happens all the time. Don't kill yourself over this. Do you what you can in a timely and efficient manner, and figure out what can be done at a normal (somewhat rushed) work pace and let them know.

You're just one part of a large transition and they will either (a) pay you to stay on and handle some stuff; or (b) hand it off to somebody else.

You don't owe them jackshit. Certainly NOT a panic attack.


Steph L. - Jul 17, 2013 8:06:16 am PDT #1939 of 30002
I look more rad than Lutheranism

I made it in around 11:30, and Incompetent!Boss had sent out an e-mail saying that he bought pizza for the office and then he went on to say really lovely things about everyone and the good job we've done, etc., etc.

So I lost it again. (Also sad because I couldn't eat the pizza, but I'm used to that.)

And then there was an e-mail from Big!Boss saying we will be paid through the end of July. So I lost it again. If I could get my emotions under control (as always, Troy says it best), I'd be thrilled.


Amy - Jul 17, 2013 8:08:50 am PDT #1940 of 30002
Because books.

It's hard, Steph. You've been there a long time. But you should be eligible for unemployment at the end of July, too.


Steph L. - Jul 17, 2013 8:16:29 am PDT #1941 of 30002
I look more rad than Lutheranism

But you should be eligible for unemployment at the end of July, too.

We definitely are, since it was a sale/layoff, and not actually being fired.


sj - Jul 17, 2013 8:51:53 am PDT #1942 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Teppy, I'm sorry. All the calm~ma headed your way.

Saturday I went with a bunch of friends to a fancy restaurant in town that is usually fantastic. However, it was a really weird night where everything went wrong. We complained to the manager on duty, and they took a bunch of stuff off the bill. However, because we were using a groupon, I received a call from the general manager this week apologizing again, and he sent us a $100 gift certificate. Now that's what I call good customer service.


Burrell - Jul 17, 2013 9:26:17 am PDT #1943 of 30002
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Oh Steph, I'm sorry it's been such a day.