Willow: Yes. Hi. You must be Angel's handsome, yet androgynous, son. Connor: It's Connor. Willow: And the sneer's genetic. Who knew?

'A Hole in the World'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Laura - May 19, 2015 4:19:59 am PDT #19285 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

Ha, surely you should want to hide that aspect. I don't think I have ever really noticed how people have listed their gender on FB.


Steph L. - May 19, 2015 4:40:41 am PDT #19286 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Does she maybe not know what "cisgender" means?


Hil R. - May 19, 2015 4:41:27 am PDT #19287 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

You need to click through a couple of levels of the person's profile to see it. I think I've had it that way for about a year now, and this is the first time my mother noticed.


Hil R. - May 19, 2015 4:41:51 am PDT #19288 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

She says she googled "cisgender," and seems to know what it means now.


Zenkitty - May 19, 2015 7:04:52 am PDT #19289 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

bonny, living in an urban environment always gave me such stress because people were always right in front of my windows talking and doing stuff! That's too much proximity to other people. I don't want someone to be able to pee in front of my house without at least having to cross my yard first. Can you install a moat?


beekaytee - May 19, 2015 7:11:48 am PDT #19290 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

Can you install a moat?

Ha. The proximity is actually what I love about being in this neighborhood. The fact that there are people on the street 24/7. I'm sure that is a product of being so isolated when I was young.

Even the weird stuff is generally just amusing.

I apologize for being so amused by your disrupted night, bonny. I can picture this too well! Also, yeah, never had to go that bad.

Totally this. I can't say I'm embarrassed for her because I think she thought it was funny. I can shake my head and say...in an old lady voice...Have some dignity!

Or at least think to go before you leave the bar! Don't make me turn this sidewalk around!!


askye - May 19, 2015 7:13:44 am PDT #19291 of 30002
Thrive to spite them

Bonny that's freaky.

I waiting for mom to pick me up. Trying not to be judgmental but I left work ealy. The anxiety ... I tried to tolerate it. I tried distractions and breathing bit it wasn't working. And I took all the klonopin I'm allotted for the day. I have tomorrow off and therapy thursday. I don't feel like I've made progress.


Zenkitty - May 19, 2015 7:17:40 am PDT #19292 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

I'm sure that is a product of being so isolated when I was young.

Nah, I think it's your gregarious nature! I was very isolated as a child (physically, on a big farm) and I still don't like having people so close. The road is about 30 feet from my patio and I can hear people talking as they walk by, and I'm only now getting used to that!


Connie Neil - May 19, 2015 7:32:50 am PDT #19293 of 30002
brillig

The other night I dreamed I was holding a purring, plushy cat, just like Shadow, though he seemed bigger than Shadow. I hugged him and realized he wasn't wearing a collar, then I realized he didn't have a heart beat, either. Which didn't stop him from snuggling and purring. Then from the doorway I heard Hubby say, "Come on, let her sleep," and the cat slipped away.


beekaytee - May 19, 2015 7:38:31 am PDT #19294 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

Aw. Bless, Connie!

They were just checking in on you, eh?

The bigger is the love.

No collar, he's free.

Hubby looking out for your rest.

Yeah. I choose how I see things.