Mal: Inara, think you could stoop to being on my arm? Inara: Will you wash it first?

'Heart Of Gold'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


smonster - Mar 12, 2015 5:15:33 pm PDT #17791 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Maybe that's why I like Marie Kondo's book so much. She treats everything as if it has a spirit, which comes rather naturally to me.

Same here.

I do things during commercials. Dishes, tidy up, etc.


sj - Mar 12, 2015 5:30:12 pm PDT #17792 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I very rarely watch anything live anymore, so I don't really do the tidying during commercials, but I need to do something.

I'm a little disappointed that there is still snow here; I was hoping for a snow free vacation.


Burrell - Mar 12, 2015 5:44:05 pm PDT #17793 of 30002
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Today seems to have turned out well. Shocking!


smonster - Mar 12, 2015 7:23:06 pm PDT #17794 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

I watch most stuff on Hulu, which has commercials.

So this morning I was feeling oddly light and buoyant for me, and I thought… my god. Am I happy? Have I turned a corner with SAD and my normal depression? Did I really release some trauma in pigeon pose last night? And then two hours later I t was like Hiro switched out my Tadashi chip and I was like BAYMAX KILL. I couldn't think, I couldn't focus on one of the simplest and one of my favorite work tasks (denailing lumber), I literally had to bite down on my tongue to keep from snapping at a coworker with whom I normally jive with super well… who knows where this is going? Yep. PMS. That mild euphoria thing was super weird though, not something I usually get.


Typo Boy - Mar 12, 2015 8:05:49 pm PDT #17795 of 30002
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.

Ginger, thanks for the tips. I've been on iron supplements for six months, towards the end in amounts that risk iron poisoning for someone who is not anemic. No I don't know what kind I have. Still fighting to get my test results. Also don't know what is wrong with my kidneys. The creatin tests my primary did were great. But apparently there is a direct test of kidney function that shows it is not functioning within normal range. I think I have to get a new hematologist. Whatever his medical skills, his communication skills are zero.


Typo Boy - Mar 12, 2015 8:21:33 pm PDT #17796 of 30002
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.

Also, I will try to get a nephrologist


Glamcookie - Mar 13, 2015 4:22:39 am PDT #17797 of 30002
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

Sigh. The bloom is already off the rose with my new job. My new boss? Tool of the highest order. Allow me to present the evidence:

1. I was put onto a project last Thursday (brand new product, going live in less than 2 weeks). Met with the current owner Thursday. She sent out an email Friday handing everything off. I got an email from my boss Monday AM saying, "I'm glad this is moving forward, but I thought I asked you to do this. Did something change?" WTF, dude? I can't magically have the knowledge in one day!

2. Yesterday we had an all-hands mtg on-site. After the mtg, I was chatting with a few co-workers when ToolBoss approached. He says, "I'd like for all of you, well maybe not you [gesturing my way], to meet [the VP that just spoke]." WTF, dude?

3. In a prezzo a couple of days ago, he had a slide that showed how the various team members work together. Problem 1: It was a total caste system. Showed bottom rung icon wearing a t-shirt, middle rung wearing a sweater, top wearing a...tie! Can you spot Problem 2?

This guy just turned 31, this is his first real job (been at company for 5 years after working retail in the Apple store). None of this would be relevent if he were actually good at his job, but it all adds up to a very shitty boss situation. A.R.G.H.


sj - Mar 13, 2015 4:27:48 am PDT #17798 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Ugh, Glam. That is no good at all.

First day of vacation, I woke up at 6 AM with one of my terrible stomach aches. Do I know how to party or what?


Laura - Mar 13, 2015 4:31:17 am PDT #17799 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

Oh Glam, that does suck. that is the kind of person that I would end up treating like a best bud. Like keep your friends close and your enemies closer.


Glamcookie - Mar 13, 2015 4:31:21 am PDT #17800 of 30002
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

sj, that sucks. PG aches and pains were tough.