I really need to get better at stepping away when someone is wrong on the internet. When someone is being wrong in person, I at least know that I can physically walk away, and cool off, and when I walk back, the person will probably be talking about something else. But when I walk away from the internet and then walk back, the wrong comment is still there, in all its wrongness. I need new coping strategies.
Monty ,'Trash'
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My coping mechanism on Facebook is to hide the message from my feed immediately.
Well, the guy I'm arguing with just made such a completely nonsensical statement that I think I've finally gotten to the "He's not worth arguing with" point. (I am, stupidly, arguing about Jewish theology on a Humans of New York post. Yes, I know.)
My coping mechanism on Facebook is to hide the message from my feed immediately.
that's how I deal with spiders.
that's how I deal with spiders.
But it's only a temporary fix. It'll still be there, lurking on the web.
SHUT UP! BT...it's not true {{{shivers}}}
I think my new rule is that, in discussions about Judaism, I will not engage with anyone who starts a sentence with "All religions ..."
Hil, see tag line...
Laura, I'm very glad your nephew is doing better. What a relief!
bonny, I'm going to say this because I know you would do the same for any of us, but you may have too deep of an emotional investment. The time for sending letters to your landlord has long passed. He's shown time and time again he's not willing to make the necessary and proper repairs. The housing authority should now be involved. Your relocation expenses could be covered, and you could receive other remuneration for the times you can show it wasn't livable. You cannot fix this on your own anymore and it's futile to continue trying. Life is too short to put yourself though this bullshit.
I second that, Maria.