Don't worry, I'm not gonna start any sword fights. I'm over that phase.

Mal ,'War Stories'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


sj - Feb 22, 2015 7:18:10 am PST #17320 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Bonny, please listen to Maria. I'm worried about you.

I definitely have a head cold, and I'm going back to sleep.


smonster - Feb 22, 2015 7:32:23 am PST #17321 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Not to taunt, but it's beautiful here today.

sj, feel better! I'm glad you are resting.

Need to figure out what self-care looks like today and get on it before I run out of day. Still in pjs. I need to fix food for lunch tomorrow, maybe go to the Apple Store, tidy my room, maybe sort some Mardi Gras beads, refill a script and make a yoga class if at all possible. And chuck this pack of cigarettes I bought yesterday.


Anne W. - Feb 22, 2015 7:53:29 am PST #17322 of 30002
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.

Is Finn eating more?

Yes, he is. He's eating enthusiastically but not desperately, which leads me to believe that some of his earlier glee at being fed (I have met beagles with more restraint around food) may have been in part due to boredom.


Steph L. - Feb 22, 2015 8:49:17 am PST #17323 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

smonster, my cousin got back to me and the only study she found was the first link I posted for you. But she says that she sees things about fecal transplants come across her Twitter feed all the time, so she'll keep an eye out for anything related to mental health.


aurelia - Feb 22, 2015 8:54:27 am PST #17324 of 30002
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

bonny, call the DCRA and ask for an apartment inspection. That is the first step in allowing you to leave without penalty for breaking the lease. There is an implied warranty of habitability that doesn't seem to have been met for some time.

It may be time to find somewhere else to live. I don't see the landlord changing anytime soon.

This. And I would think chances are good that your landlord could be liable for hotel costs until you are able to move.


Steph L. - Feb 22, 2015 8:56:50 am PST #17325 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

This. And I would think chances are good that your landlord could be liable for hotel costs until you are able to move.

Given that the ceiling is collapsing? It sure seems like he should be.


beekaytee - Feb 22, 2015 9:03:38 am PST #17326 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

I wish I could show you the video of the walk through just now where he was telling me how he's seen so much worse and it really isn't that big a deal. Oh and the roof IS TOTALLY DRY and the roofer will be here on Wednesday and he's got a guy who will fix all that paint.

Paint?

The wall in my bedroom looks like someone took a galactic sized hair dryer and melted it.

He doesn't think the water 'rushing past' the wiring will be a problem. It probably isn't but ugh.

I did find a hotel and have put out the word about finding a new place.

Right now, I'm going to push my bed into the living room and try to get a nap.

I'm so exhausted, I really am not thinking straight.


aurelia - Feb 22, 2015 9:54:54 am PST #17327 of 30002
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

After the nap start packing. You need to get out, get out, get out!


smonster - Feb 22, 2015 10:25:21 am PST #17328 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Thanks, Steph!


beekaytee - Feb 22, 2015 1:43:12 pm PST #17329 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

Nap achievement unlocked. It was not long, but it was necessary.

My friend's husband, who has a rental property and who does home renovations came by to inspect the damage and assure me that I am unlikely to be killed by my apartment in the next couple of days.

Despite sharing my concerns about the potential for shorts in the electrical system, he figures if it was going to go blooey, it would have done by now.

Still, I have my go bag packed, I know a hotel that will take us (Thanks Ginger, The Capitol Hill Hotel...which is easy walking...turned out to have space if I need it) AND my lovely neighbor down the block fed me lunch and made it so I could deal with the rolling nonsense that is my landlord.

A blow dryer and a bunch of thoss silica packs you get in packages (don't throw them out, they really are useful) helped to dry out my bed enough that I can use it. The bed is pushed mostly out of my bedroom to avoid a bubble in the ceiling, but I can manage.

I also happened to speak to a man I did a big favor for a few months ago who has contacts with people who need long term house sitters, so he's putting on his thinking cap for me.

The renovator said, "He's gonna put a new roof on this place and everything under it is just gonna rot.

My thoughts exactly.