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Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Laura - Feb 20, 2015 10:18:09 am PST #17232 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

Oh dear Sumi, sending many warm thoughts.

I'm freaking out a bit. My nephew in NY has been in the hospital all week. My sister just told me today. She didn't want us to have to keep things from Mom. But since he is in so long, and will be longer, she had to let us know. I'll go over to Mom's this weekend to be around to help her with the news.

He had been having back aches, but this wasn't unusual for him so he ignored it, as some of us do. He thought he had the flu because his wife and child were sick. White font for bodily fluids. Then the bloody pee got him to go to the doctor with my sister. While there he vomited in a bucket provided in the exam room and his mother didn't like the look of it and showed the doctor. He called the ambulance.

Some liver number that should be like 20 was like 10,000 or something and a bunch of other numbers way out of whack. Liver enlarged. Kidneys not so great. He went downhill and was delirious enough that he had to be restrained and sedated. He is now intubated too. I guess his numbers are improving, but now he has MRSA. Gotta love hospitals. They are talking dialysis now.

Obviously my sister is a mess. His wife's family has been helping with child and pet care so they don't need me to come up, but I want to hug her. He has great insurance with the state and he is a strong guy in his early 40s, great vitals pretty much through it all.

Any heath~ma that can be sent to the Adirondacks would be appreciated.


sj - Feb 20, 2015 10:31:49 am PST #17233 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

How awful, Laura! Tons of ~ma for your nephew and the family.


amyth - Feb 20, 2015 10:33:52 am PST #17234 of 30002
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen

Lots of ~ma, Laura!


Laura - Feb 20, 2015 10:35:21 am PST #17235 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

It kills me that she has been bedside all week and not able to share with us. We tend to be protective of mom with upsetting news. We will downplay the whole thing, but she talks to her every weekend and can't pretend. It is unusual enough not to talk to her all week, but mom is forgetful enough to not notice. She barely could hold it together on the phone with me and the nurse came in and told her about the MRSA while I was on the phone.


Burrell - Feb 20, 2015 10:42:49 am PST #17236 of 30002
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Oh Laura, how awful for all of them! So much ~ma for everyone, especially your nephew.

And sumi that is terrible. I hope you get some rest today, and an explanation from your landlord.


Trudy Booth - Feb 20, 2015 11:04:58 am PST #17237 of 30002
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

all my love, Laura


Trudy Booth - Feb 20, 2015 11:07:56 am PST #17238 of 30002
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

eeeeee ... I think this may be Belinda's soul mate ... assuming a soul, of course.

Sheesh. Even BELINDA is going to go on a date before I do.


Zenkitty - Feb 20, 2015 11:13:47 am PST #17239 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Laura, that's horrible! Much health~ma for your nephew!

Sheesh. Even BELINDA is going to go on a date before I do.

Well, if you'd just lower your standards a little, you could have a date with a creepy little clown man, too!


Fred Pete - Feb 20, 2015 11:41:18 am PST #17240 of 30002
Ann, that's a ferret.

All health~ma to Laura's family.


Calli - Feb 20, 2015 12:44:58 pm PST #17241 of 30002
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Goodness. Health~ma to your nephew, Laura.