Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Oh, and on Friday, a student missed the quiz I gave, because he slipped on the ice and sprained his ankle. I told him he could make up the quiz in my office hours this morning, and he said OK. He didn't come to my office hours. So, in class, I hand back everyone else's quizzes and go over the answers. Then he comes up to me after class, says that he couldn't come in to my office hours because the buses weren't running this morning (and they weren't -- why was the university open when the bus company thought it was unsafe on the road is a good question to ask though), and so he wanted to know when he could take the makeup quiz. I said, "But you just sat there when I explained the answers to the quiz." And he said, "Oh, it's OK, you can give me different problems." NO I AM NOT WRITING AN ENTIRELY NEW QUIZ JUST FOR YOU BECAUSE YOU DIDN'T HAVE THE SENSE TO THINK "MAYBE I SHOULD SAY SOMETHING" WHEN I STARTED GOING OVER TO THE ANSWERS TO A QUIZ YOU HADN'T TAKEN YET.
So, yeah. Today sucks. And I told him he could just take the original quiz, because frankly, at this point, I don't care about one quiz, and if I didn't let him take it, he'd probably write an evaluation about how I'm evil, anyway.
Holy crap, askye, I had no idea this was something that'd been a medical issue for most of your life if I'm reading that the right way. My profound sympathies. Will have to read about bladder reflux, I've never heard of it before. Catheter stuff is awful. I saw an ad somewhere, a magazine probably, for self cathetering that made me gasp. It must be for guys with prostate issues. (All the magazines these days seem to have 80% pharm ads. Are they targeted by age, I wonder?)
Thanks, WSparrow! I'll have to fool around with that.
The IC is new, it developed about 5 or 6 years ago. Bladder reflux is alot like acid reflux only instead of acid going up your throat urine is sent back up towards the kidneys. It's a birth defect (mild as those go) and I had surgery when I was about 2 years old to fix it.
But I kept getting UTIs and for awhile they'd take me to the hospital to deal with my refusing to void my bladder. But the insurance wouldn't pay for it and so then it happened in the doctors office. I was on a lot of antibiotics as a kid, fought tooth and nail against taking meds and it was never pretty.
The UTIs seemed to resolve themselves until I started having major pain in my side and finally IC was ruled the culprit.
The surgery for the bladder reflux - they detached the urethra tubes and then reattached them to the bladder. When my surgery was done they left stumps and the tubes were reattached touching the stumps. At one point the urologist I was going to seee was going to cauterize the stumps from the inside but wasn't able to because of the touching.
I do know there are women with IC who do self administered installations but I've never had to deal with that.
(All the magazines these days seem to have 80% pharm ads. Are they targeted by age, I wonder?)
I suspect the demographic for paper media is trending fairly old these days.
I hope I didn't over share.
I'm also sorry my posting seems to be entirely The State of askye's Health because I'm sure it's boring to read.
Unfortunately I have no other intersting updates, not even a cute cat story. Penny has been relatively boring lately, she hasn't even made an escape attempt. Currently she's curled up on a throw pillow on the couch looking very stately.
I hope I didn't over share.
I don't really think that we accept that as a concept ;)
relatively boring lately, she hasn't even made an escape attempt. Currently she's curled up on a throw pillow on the couch looking very stately.
We should all be so wise.
I'm gonna need a bigger throw pillow.
Sympathies, Kat. It's just never easy, and seldom fair.
And I sympathize with your frustration, Askye.
I feel so bad for those of you dealing with snow and ice and cold. We're 40s-50s here, pretty unvaryingly. I feel like winter is never coming, Ned Stark be damned. Someone on Tumblr said (so it *must* be true) that 2014 was the warmest year on record, worldwide. That's no help to those of you mired in piles of wintry mix, but the global climate just ain't what it used to be, pretty much anywhere.
I cannot deal with this weather anymore. Even with electric blankets and a space heater, I'm still freezing, and I just need it to stop.
I'm nearly at the point where I want to just stay in a hotel for a few days, so that I can get at least a little while of sleeping in warm air, but then I'd still have to go outside to get to work.