And remember, if you hurt her, I will beat you to death with a shovel.

Willow ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


sj - Jan 29, 2015 2:45:09 pm PST #16490 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

MM, have I mentioned that you have been missed?


askye - Jan 29, 2015 3:17:12 pm PST #16491 of 30002
Thrive to spite them

The neighborhood cats are going to give Penny a heart attack. There are not supposed to be outdoor cats per the lease, but that is ignored. So they jump on the railing of the deck and stare at Penny through the living room window and she goes nuts.


Miracleman - Jan 29, 2015 3:52:27 pm PST #16492 of 30002
No, I don't think I will - me, quoting Captain Steve Rogers, to all of 2020

Missed you, too sj.


juliana - Jan 29, 2015 3:54:04 pm PST #16493 of 30002
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

Ginger, I am sorry about the anemia.

For bra shopping, I've found True & Co. [link] to be brilliant. My top 3 favorite bras are from that site, plus free shipping & returning, and trying bras on in the comfort of home.

Sadly, MM, they don't have candy bras.


sj - Jan 29, 2015 4:02:01 pm PST #16494 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

TCG and I went out for Mexican food tonight. I've been too nervous to go out by myself with all the snow, but it was good to get out of the house.


Anne W. - Jan 29, 2015 4:03:33 pm PST #16495 of 30002
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.

Freshpair is also a good source. I actually found myself a sports bra that a) doesn't have underwire b) doesn't give me monoboob and c) actually comes in a 34F. Finding that thing was akin to spotting a unicorn in the back yard.

MM, it is very good to see you around again!


Laura - Jan 29, 2015 4:48:23 pm PST #16496 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

I hope this is the year that I burn my bras. I didn't wear them until I was nearly 40 and gained weight. My fervent wish is to go back to camisoles. Soon. t old hippie


Hil R. - Jan 29, 2015 5:15:16 pm PST #16497 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I usually order my bras from figleaves.com. I've found one bra that works for me, and that seems to be the only online place that carries it in my size. (Because of my shoulder problems, I need the straps to be set pretty close in to my neck, and most bras that come in my cup size have straps set further out, which puts pressure on some already-painful parts of my shoulder joint.)


askye - Jan 29, 2015 5:22:59 pm PST #16498 of 30002
Thrive to spite them

I got my pants from lands end and they fit although the material is a little thinner than I remembered.

But all the pockets are sewn shut so tightly I'm afraid I'll rip them if I try anything to get them open. What's the best way to cut the po keys loose without destroying the pants? I don't have any kind of sewing stuff just a large pair of scissors and a smaller pair somewhere and a bunch of knives.


askye - Jan 29, 2015 5:49:13 pm PST #16499 of 30002
Thrive to spite them

I got the pockets open. But caused some minor damage I think is mostly cosmetic and won't be visible.