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Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


P.M. Marc - Jan 28, 2015 6:33:52 am PST #16424 of 30002
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

[link] for more info.


sj - Jan 28, 2015 9:11:37 am PST #16425 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I desperately need new bras, because everything I have is painful.


erin_obscure - Jan 28, 2015 9:47:58 am PST #16426 of 30002
Occasionally I’m callous and strange

Those links are perfect explanation! Ok, it really is a just a change in manufacture and sizing of bras for the betterment of womankind. I'm good with that :)


Steph L. - Jan 28, 2015 10:02:48 am PST #16427 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I seriously had never even heard of +4 band sizing. I don't even remember where I originally read how to measure your bra size, but it was what I guess is the +0 band sizing. So that's what I did, and when I went for a proper fitting, I was disappointed to not be in the [whatever high %] of women who was wearing the wrong size.

(Does the above read like hipster bra cred? "I was measuring my bust properly before it was cool!" I totally don't mean it that way. I just really never heard any other method. I can't believe I stumbled into the right way by accident.)


Zenkitty - Jan 28, 2015 10:14:28 am PST #16428 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

The article says breast tissue can migrate to the back and the waist from improperly fitted bras and minimizers because all that fat has to go somewhere. While that makes sense, I can't quite believe all this back fat and waist fat is displaced boobs. And if it is, I'll need a ZZ cup size when it all goes back in place.


P.M. Marc - Jan 28, 2015 10:18:57 am PST #16429 of 30002
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Given how my squishy self has minimal back fat in a well-fitted bra, I believe it. Though it's not so much migration as squishing into the wrong place.


Steph L. - Jan 28, 2015 10:21:17 am PST #16430 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I have back fat, but its topography doesn't change when I put my bra on. So I assume it's fitted right. (Plus, I do the pull-the-boob-up-and-around-and-settle-it-into-the-cup maneuver to make sure all of the boob is where it ought to be.)


Connie Neil - Jan 28, 2015 10:22:43 am PST #16431 of 30002
brillig

the pull-the-boob-up-and-around-and-settle-it-into-the-cup maneuver

Huh, I didn't know people didn't do this. They're uncomfortable if I don't reach in and resettle them.


Zenkitty - Jan 28, 2015 10:23:03 am PST #16432 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Steph, you gotta lean forward parallel to the floor to scoop the whole boob in the cup! That's what my mom taught me.


Steph L. - Jan 28, 2015 10:26:37 am PST #16433 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I used to lean forward, and honestly, the reach-and-grab works way better for my boobs.